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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Re: Not sure what to do !!!

What else can you say when someone cuts back their hours @Shaz51 - you can't exactly ask why or insist they have a contract or something - you do what you can - what else?

But it must be hard to lose a client

Your mother's arm isn't getting any better but I take it not getting any worse either - it must be hard on you and her - and it seems a lot of same old same old for her - the years have passed and as some famous woman said a long time ago - "Old age is no plase for sissies" - I am finding that out for myself. I care a lot about your mum too

I've also got my fingers crossed for Mr Shaz - and best wishes again about the results next week - or maybe - some of the results - gee - that has to be hard waiting - yeah - mm

And you are aching tonight - I hope you can go to bed early and feel more comfortable tomorrow

Best wishes

Dec

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hello and hugs @Jacques , @Owlunar , @Appleblossom , @Wanderer , @outlander , @Bunniekins , @Former-Member , @Former-Member , @Determined , @Smc

this morning mr shaz spent the morning at the hospital doing tests for being a kidney donor --- awww i love him
next week we get the results to see if we are compatable and then some more tests
i am going to refocus on my health and hope i don`t need a transplant for years
afternoon off --- ayyyyy due to rain and hospital all morning
cleaned mum`s this morning too
relaxing this afternoon and even had one hour sleep xoxo

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@Shaz51 My beautiful sister I am thinking of you during this time and saying prayers that you have your wish come true re mr shaz's kidney. You deserve a break. Take care of yourself. Love always peaxxx

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Having a siesta = yay @Shaz51

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Dear @Shaz51

Lovely to hear your update. Especially the bit about your plans to refocus on your own health. Any delay to needing to have dialysis is all for the better. And in the meantime, having a living donor ready to go (if thats what happens), is great.

Such a good man Mr Shaz is to go through all these tests to determine compatibility. Clearly he hopes he can donate a kidney and keep you well.

The results coming back next week, is reasonably quick ... not too long to wait. Please let us know here asap once you know the results. You know we all care very much about you, and have ongoing concerns about your very serious health ailments. We all NEED our Shaz to be well and happy!

Sherry 🌺🤗💖

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thank you @Bunniekins , @Former-Member , @Former-Member

yes mr shaz and mum have their fingers crossed

and the nurse was talking to mr shaz about her Dad`s transplant and gave him some tips , soo i am going to refocus and try harder to delay things xx

We all NEED our Shaz to be well and happy! --- awww my awesome sister @Former-Member xxxxxx

mr shaz was able to sleep all afternoon , he needed it i must say , after this morning

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Hope there is good news for you @Shaz51

I got busy today so my brain is now in lockdown as well, very tired but happy with the day.

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very tired but happy with the day.---- time to relax and take a breather my awesome @Wanderer xxxx

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definately @Shaz51

like yourself.

Hello @Bunniekins

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@Wanderer Hey Wanderer. Hoping you had a kind and caring day. Love you friend sweetpeax

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