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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Thanks @Owlunar Yes I share much of your thoughts.

Feels like Black Friday (instead of Good Friday).

Squeaker my only tame Cockatiel (Weero) died last night.

He is very much missed....

Adge

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I am so sorry @Adge

That was going to be unfortunate whenever it happened - but right now - not good at all

So - considering the first Good Friday - yes - I think you can call it Black Friday this year and you will miss your bird

When I was first married my then-h had a cockatiel - thay have a lot of personality - did your bird talk and have little habits like dancing and asking for cornflakes as our bird did?

They are intelligent birds and you will miss him - I had two canaries - male German Rollers - with beautiful songs - and they both lasted 9 years - I loved them a lot and it is tough when pets pass on

I will be thinking of you - Black Friday indeed

Dec

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I haven't been to church much in years either @Owlunar Perhaps strange for an ex-Monk.

I was expressing my heartfelt loss for those who do go - I heartily disagree with restricting religious practices (banning them).

I am surprised that the followers of Islam are not up in arms (rebelling) over this.

Adge

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Squeaker my only tame Cockatiel (Weero) died last night., ohhh sorry to read that @Adge

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Thank you @Shaz51 He was beautiful, called out to me to get my attention.

Squeaker loved looking at human faces, he followed your eyes.

He sang the "Squeaky Wheel Song", that's why I called him Squeaker.

I have 2 other Cockatiels, they are rather timid - they don't want you close to them.

Adge

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Hi @Adge

I think that the coronavirus doesn't respect anything - colour, race, creed, age, gender - orientation - degree of belief - anything - and to save ourselves and each other we have to self-islolate - and I am just starting my fourth week I think - I am starting to lose count

An ex-monk - eh - I hear you - I left the Anglican church for my own reasons having been to all the Anglican Churches in the area - I miss the worship - I truly do - but I am tired of putting up with conforming to certain social aspects of life to get it.

But we can worship at home - not quite the same though

Dec

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Franciscan.

Saint Francis of Assisi, a great animal-lover.

He supposedly talked to the Birds & other animals.

One of the most inspiring Christian spiritual people of all time - Founder of the Franciscan Order.

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Lovely Art-works.

Perhaps fanciful, lovely all the same.

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Tired of conforming to social aspects (re: church or religion) @Owlunar

I had similar, I get it.

I am very "liberal-minded", "ecumenical", inclusive, & quietly very non-conformist.

That does not go down well in conservative circles - bear in mind that I was a member of one the most "closed" conservative & strictest religious orders.

Simply for deciding to leave, with the intention of meeting some nice lady & getting married - I was told that I had abandoned God & would go to Hell.

The person who told me that, then became a Bishop.

I had not rejected any religion (my own), I was simply leaving the religious order....

Adge

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@Owlunar Hey Dec what a nice thing to say :). Was feeling a bit flat but your post has perked the pea up :D. Hope you have a super pea Easter and year ahead too my dear friend Dec. Love peaxxx

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