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The Fear of Dying Alone

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The Fear of Dying Alone

Hi everyone,

I am new to this forum.

I am 24 years old and I have struggled for a long time with depression, anxiety, body image issues, and OCD. It has at least 12 years now that I have struggled with it. This has meant that I have struggled to develop friendships and I have missed out on a lot of opportunities.

This has lead to my greatest fear, the fear of never having a partner. I have never had a girlfriend, I am a virgin and it pains me greatly. I was in hospital 7 times over an 8 month period and part of this was due to the fact that I may never have a girlfriend. I also have crippling body image issues which means I never look in the mirror. The pain is exacerbated by the fact that I am the only person in my family over the age of 18 who is not in a long term relationship or married.

My problem is that I don't know how to get out more as I am struggling to find things to do. Does anyone else have the same problems as I do because it seems like everyone is finding it easy to get into relationships except me? Am I doing anything wrong?

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In response to: The Fear of Dying Alone

AppleblossomSenior Contributor

Re: The Fear of Dying Alone

Hey @Former-Member

Sorry if I have been awol. Had a bit on and started study.

Do you want to say what is going on at the moment?

The relationship and dating scenes are not my strong points ... I bumble along. If I think about it too much. I get frustrated, beat myself, or get cranky with all the normies ...

My best approach is to do stuff I love doing on my own and learning to be satisfied with that. Yet I keep reaching out ... nobody has understood me ... I get more from this community than from other places ... starting to get a feeling of being ... seen.

DO you want to share more about things that interest you?

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