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February sucks

Ant7Senior Contributor02 Mar 2019, 9:35 pm AEDT

February sucks

I have been good really good for about a year but February was not cool not cool at all. It was 12 months since my lowest point and everything has been getting on top of me again.

My kids who all have their own issues going on have all started University and that has caused some stress and issues within our house and family.

My wife has started a new job she is enjoying it but she is very stressed and spending more and more time at work and she is always tired which is causing issues between us.

We have had some financial issues going on as well and again have caused my wife and I a lot of stress and argument.

My work has told us that they are going to let 4 people go from my section but at least they have given us time to get used to the idea.

My dad has been told he is in kidney failure which has been caused by the treatment he has been getting for his heart failure.

I have been struggling with all of this and it has been bad there have been some bad thoughts. Anyway I just wanted to get some of this off my chest as I don’t really have anyone in my life that I can talk to about things

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Ant7Senior Contributor03 Mar 2019, 4:23 am AEDT

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@Bunniekins It is a 250 Suzuki it is my first bike. I would love something bigger when I get some more money lol. I used to own a V8 commodore once upon a time but now I have a Diesel twin cab Ute not fast but very practical.

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor03 Mar 2019, 4:28 am AEDT

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@Ant7 It is a good thing we will never meet Ant7 as together with our love of speed we would only get ourselves into trouble lol. I would love a commodore v8 bright green thanks and a brand new Ducati would suit the pea down to the ground 🙂

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Ant7Senior Contributor03 Mar 2019, 4:33 am AEDT

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@Bunniekins I had a red commodore with a 5 speed manual O Yeah lol. Ducati 1299 pinagalie or the new V4 would be nice

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor03 Mar 2019, 4:38 am AEDT

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@Ant7 :):) nothing like a bit of speed to perk you up! My ex was always worried that I would k1ll myself on road because I was fearless. It was such a relief to leave all your troubles behind and go for a ride.

Do you do much riding now?

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor03 Mar 2019, 4:40 am AEDT

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@Ant7 your bike pic has just come up 🙂 it is a gorgeous bike 🙂

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Ant7Senior Contributor03 Mar 2019, 4:42 am AEDT

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@Bunniekins I ride to work most days but that’s about it. I spend a lot of time training these days

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Ant7Senior Contributor03 Mar 2019, 4:43 am AEDT

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@Bunniekins Thanks that’s the day I got it 😊

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor03 Mar 2019, 4:46 am AEDT

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@Ant7 Ahhh training you can veg out and have a sleep :). Not a bad thing after having a 12 hour shift :o. Don't know how you do it Ant7. Have you got any plans today other than sleeping? Tonight will be your last 12 hours shift for the week?

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Ant7Senior Contributor03 Mar 2019, 4:49 am AEDT

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@Bunniekins not really any plans I have something in mind but I probably won’t do it

Yeah it’s my last shift tonight then 4 days off 😊

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor03 Mar 2019, 4:56 am AEDT

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@Ant7 I am going to try and get some more sleep (highly doubtful but will try). Have a great day Ant7 and take good care of yourself xxxx

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