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The Beer Garden

The Beer Garden

i encourage you all to join me for some casual drinking, social lubrication and light laughter right here in the beer garden.

Oh and before anyone gets up in arms about alcohol and its dangers the main beer on tap is VB or virtual beer

beer is the third most commonly consumed drink in the world behind water and tea

why not share the worlds joy with friends

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Thanks again @TAB, all I want is for someone to be understanding.

Thanks @Former-Member, I feel like I've spent too much of my life alone amusing myself waiting for some company to share life with, but my energy for that has ran out, and anyone I do have for company is not understanding and makes things worse.

I do have some hope, because I have had lots of counselling too, although most of it I found more harmful, I did have one good psychologist who helped me a lot with depression. And I understand my problems more now myself.

Also I met someone once, someone who I could never have imagined could have existed, while she was my friend, everything was ok, all of my problems just didn't matter anymore, it was divine, but no one understood, at least she taught me that I still exist, otherwise I'd have given up by now.

It is hard talking to my parents, I want to and I try to, but it just hurts and makes me feel more alone that they don't understand.

I am studying, but I don't know if I'll finish now, have been under so much stress lately my energy to try to do positive things has gone.

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Take courage @Lostboy ... sometimes we stride towards our goals. other times we just drift towards them. Just keep yours in your sights and take baby steps in that direction. We can't see around corners and life provides some unexpected wins with patience and perseverance.

💜

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Thank you @Faith-and-Hope, this is all I've been trying to do for 14 years or so, it's unbelievably hard having to fight against everyone, people who are so mean and vehement.

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I hear you @Lostboy. I had a circle like that around me for many years, but life doesn't stay the same .... just keep being the best you you can be and see what happens. We enjoy your company here. There are a lot of compassionate souls who have migrated here .... 😊💕

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Thank you again @Faith-and-Hope, I have lost my relationship with the friend I had for the longest and my sisters, because they wouldn't stop telling me that I'm ugly and no girl will ever like me and it's not ok for me to want to talk to girls, until I believed it, until it broke me. I don't understand why they done that, but I don't think things are reconcilable with them. I try. And thank you, although I'm not sure how anyone could enjoy my company being negative, although I can be a fun person believe it or not, I am still an intact individual, just very inhibited by brokeness.

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Omg @Lostboy, what sort of sisters were they? That's horrible. No way. You write with such sensitivity, & yes I hear humor, & intelligence...sounds like a perfect mix for any girl looking put there.
Go prove your sisters wrong, & just be you.
Be bold, & a smart girl knows a good thing when she sees it 😉...trust in you! 👍

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Let me tell you something @Lostboy ..... and hold onto this for life ...,,, The most beautiful looking person in the world - and that is totally subjective to the culture you're in - looks as ugly as all hell the moment they open their mouth and start speaking rudely, meanly, crassly, egotistically or anything else that totally makes you forget in an instant what they look like ..... it's all just ugly, ugly, ugly .....

The reverse is also true .... beauty is as beauty does ....,, And a beautiful spirit lights up the room, making any features familiar, warm, and kind. That is worth gold. Find the truly beautiful people and relax in their company ..... the ones who have compassionate hearts an kind eyes, and a great attitude.

Pass on those sisters of yours. Find replacement sisters for them who care about how you feel.

Big hugs ...... 💜💕

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Absolutely @Faith-and-Hope 😊..
And @Lostboy, you'd be amazed how many sister's not by blood you will find.
And an amazing soul who 'see's' you...❤

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dizzy's not good ,had a bit of a sleep, think am dehydrated amongst other things .. somethings just feeling 'out' yeah try a nap if you can maybe @Former-Member

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Unfortunately doesn't look likely @TAB..😱..joys of being a mum.
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