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Baa,ha,ha..we're we not talking 'tickets' some time back? 😂😉...funny...it a nice you get along with him. I've a younger bro. We roll well without talking much now...hea grown up n all! I used to be his second mum. Lol..yep I'm sure in your previous relationships you ..tempered German stubbornness! 😝..no digs!!
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..he was embarrased in a way cos he had put on weight, yet he being he, managed to drop 10kg in 4 wks cos 'he didn't want to be fat old guy in pics' and he was actually very proud of it, and talking to him prior, was a bit like an election, was funny .. parents loved it @Former-Member
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Oh geez parents would!! @TAB...you can drop if you want too! Easy peasy man!.. Lol...ok point noted on 'type's'...women are wired different I guess...but I've an appreciation for the different types. I see something in most people..maybe a vulnerability at times.
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TABSenior Contributor
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..he is/was my best friend for decades, re younger brother, you mum you, had lots in common re experiences, if not achievements ie he was the achiever ..and yeah dunno re German, could be led to water, but if left to own devices would just not change anything..even made me wonder.. @Former-Member
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TABSenior Contributor
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yeah for years I'd talk about family when meeting people how sad is that.. was better than talking about me ..and guess some of it may have rubbed off on me ..lol..and yeah re 'types' I fell in with some pretty worldwise 'dark' women for a while, so may just leave it at that. What interested me was that while they were talking 'types' they themselves became a' type' ..it's the past for me anyway and best avoided. well except for good bits ..lol @Former-Member
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Hmm 'type's'..in a sense I think we play different roles as different situations require them.well I do..learnt coping response..world wise women? You'd need to elaborate otherwise you may be 'typing' he he...right I gotta shower...get this show on the road n then 'get outa town' as my dad used to say before he jump in his truck! Smile on his dial ..I remember thinking Yeh you got that right..goin places !!!
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you funny woman @Former-Member lets just say without thinking too far, that they were both attractive, both had kids, both over well 40 ..and were very well preserving despite having a very hard life and at times I wouldnt have wanted to be with anyone else
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TABSenior Contributor
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..and no, not trying to make any comparisons, twas what it was, and well, you asked.. @Former-Member
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@TAB..I guess things become as they are?.. I've done one leg of my journey, got massive headache now. P.s. didn't read it as comparisons, it was your experiences..we all have experiences... Well I should go dress shopping for a wedding coming up, but with little man, busy shops I'm not sure I'm up to it. Ends up being a nightmare. It's raining still...not a fan. I should go for a swim later, squeezing into my jeans this morning 😱...
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Omg @TAB..I went dress shopping..think I'm getting cold & loosing the plot!! Waah. Waah @ Bridget..I recall you trying to find a dress a while back!! I know what you were experiencing...
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