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I'm a going back to bed for a kip too. My eyes are getting heavy. 💤💤😴
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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It's an mi mindset @Kurra .... locked in and can't budge it .... same with the diet and exercise regimen all day every day .... same foods every day at the same time every day ....measured .... weighed .... same exercise pattern spaced between food stops ... 7/7 .... relentless ....
Trying to reason with him or nudge him to the dr just resulted in emotionally abusive backlash .....
We're managing him .... "shepherding" if you like .... cos we can't reach him.
Just had to work out how to calm it down enough to live with it .... hard on all of us which is why I've got blow-outs happening with the kids too .... emotionally exhausting.
That's our roller-coaster. Everyone here has got one ....
🐠🐠🐠
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KurraSenior Contributor
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True @Faith-and-Hope. Stay strong ❤
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TABSenior Contributor
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@Kurra x
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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Thanks @Kurra❤️
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Unknown userMember
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Omg @Faith-and-Hope, camera's? Gee I've missed a lot...I'm taking it because paranoid of someone breaking in? But did read you need sleep. Yes do, hope you rest well. I'm back on school run..best get moving...
Oh @Kurra, yes I saw negative vibes from the click group. Not ones I choose to be part of. Sleep helped me no end, I'll stroll on...ignoring the crappie bits! Catch you all Bit later ..😘
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KurraSenior Contributor
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Morning @Former-Member I hope this isn't a group that you need to remain in contact. When they've formed such a negative clique it's far better to stay away completely. Have a pleasant and peaceful day 😙🎶💕
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Unknown userMember
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Luckily I don't have too much to do with the clicky group @Kurra. I committed to make the effort for my partner, as this group are wives of his mates. They have all grown up here or been here a very long time, I'm the new comer. Even though 3 Years, I'm still not quite accepted. But I'm a smart cookie & the colours they have shown, I don't need to keep being part of. It confirmed for me, I tried, now I don't have to try so hard anymore. It's a bit more entwined as one of them is an inlaw so tricky. But not tricky enough for this bunny! 😉 I'm quite happy the way I did handle myself, then moved on around the room!
@Former-Member, Yeh so agree. They are no better than me. I like knowing people, I'm thrown when you are thrown out for no reason. Maybe I wore the wrong color?!!!! Or out did them on the dance floor, my partner said I did!! Lol I was living the moment lol 😁😂😉
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Unknown userMember
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Hi @Faith-and-Hope,
Yep, last night was fine. Friends stayed until around 9pm till I made them leave out as the 2 hours of sleep I had the night before had caught up with me. Still didn't sleep great - but mainly due to having had a drink (alcohol upsets my sleep) and not nightmares. 😊
How's your Monday holding up?
Also Moderators, can we have the ability to add a short bio to our page so we all 'know' who we all are. I can never remember who has kids, family, works, doesn't work etc.
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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Having a pyjama day today @Former-Member ....
Have got some baby dragon issues going on with the kids and I'm feeling headachey and low on energy .... so a rest day should fix that hopefully ....
Dont know what to do about D3 yet .... haven't heard back from the school staff .... but it is school holidays .... and D3 surfaced long enough to yell at me that she's got a migraine headache and to leave her alone .... stalemate ....
Glad you had a good time with your friends .... 😊 The positives are so important ❣
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