I feel awful knowing this!

It would seem a shame that you are both so close to finishing for her to stop now but it does have to be her decision @Queenie Maybe it is her feeling she is not good enough or smart enough to finish but she has come this far and managed to get through so that says that she is good enough and indeed smart enough. Maybe she needs to know that from you and encouraged to finish and then she has options in what she does next. It is a tough one though because I am sure your priority is her happiness. Having the tutor to help may build her confidence a bit more and hopefully she can realise that she is good enough and that her decision is not dependent on how she feels about herself but what she can achieve.

is she able to see a tutor @Queenie

can you tell her that we are behind her and she can do this xxx

I told her she has come so far, so it would be a shame to drop out now the end is in sight. I also told her if it was causing her so much angst then it probably wasn't worth it and I would support her no matter what she chose to do. She seems happier today but then again the subject of study hasn't come up. I feel for her and hope that the tutor will be able to help us.

@Queenie

You are doing your best and it sounds like a good plan.

I hope the tutor will be able to help you both @Queenie. I think you have done the right thing by being so open to both scenarios playing out and hopefully that also takes a bit of pressure of her also. She may decide once you have seen the tutor that she can finish the course but if she doesn't want to continue then she has your support also and that is all both of you can really ask of each other.

I hope your partner can do it @Queenie, tell her I know she can do this xoxo

I will tell her @Shaz51 🙂