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Thought Diffusion Techniques

Thought Diffusion Techniques

Hi guys.

Has anyone heard of ACT and thought diffusion techniques? I got introduced to them from a therapist who referred me to a book "The Happiness Trap".

I was struggling with a bombardment of negative self talk on a daily basis so thought i'd give them a go and have found them really helpful.

The idea is to recognise when a thought is negative (unhelpful), and instead of trying NOT to think it, see it for what it is....just a thought....just a bunch of words put together in the mind, accept it and practice ways of taking that thought less seriously.

Examples of negative (unhelpful) thoughts:

* "I'm a loser. I won't amount to anything"

* "I have let people down"

* "What's the point. This is a waste of time"

* Etc. Etc. Etc

Thought Diffusion Techniques

1. When an unhelpful thought comes up, put the words "I'm having the thought that..." in front of it.

Eg. "I'm having the thought that I'm a loser", "I'm having the thought that no one loves me", " I'm having the thought that this is a waste of time", etc etc etc.

2. Sing the thought to the tune of a song (Jingle Bells, Happy Birthday, Mary had a Little Lamb, etc.)

3. Put a celebrity, cartoon or funny voice to the thought and Imagine them saying it. (I've been using Yoda and Porky Pig)

Eg. (Yoda) "loser, i am", (Porky Pig) " Yibbida yibbida, I'm a fraud!" Whatever the thought is.

I end up laughing or smiling doing this. The goal is not to make light of my circumstances but to stop allowing any unhelpful thoughts to rule behaviour. This is when positive thinking (which works for me sometimes) or avoidance of thinking the negative thought completely (not effective for me in rough times) doesn't work. I'm able to better get on with my day even while these thoughts are happening.

4. Treat it as a story. Say "Thanks mind! It's the "i'm a loser story", or the old, "i'm unlovable" story....thanks mind!

Just thought i'd share for anyone interested or who may benefit and also love to hear about anyones experience with Thought Diffusion and/or ACT.

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Yea @Shaz51 it's tricky to navigate all of this stuff really...

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thank you @Zaphod , hope today is ok xx

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Thanks @Shaz51. The day's going well. Hope yours is ok too. 😀

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Just to confirm, the video link above isn't me or anyone i know.
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