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Decluttering and home maintenance

Decluttering and home maintenance

When MI crisis happens, keeping house can take low priority. But having a messy house can further dent what is often an already low self esteem. Build up of grime follows and rodents have a field day in inaccessible places.

Getting that 2 minute job done (that has been annoying you for years) can lift ones spirit.

I have slowly been decluttering and tidying up our house. The progress made thus far has been achieved primarily by persistently dealing with one item a day.

What has often kept me going has been the encouragement from others @Faith-and-Hope, @Smc @Determined @Shaz51

This tip passed on to me today. Hang all your clothes in the wardrobe with the hanger back to front. As you wear them, return them with the hanger the right way round. In 6-12 months review all items that remain on back to front hangers with a view to donating/selling them.

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well done @Shaz51

I keep on starting...making a mess

then piling mess up in a new pile..

supposed to be doing today

but not feeling the best so am going to lay down and read to try and settle the mindless mind

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hugs @Sophia1

I find doing little bits at a time

like I took 10 jigsaw puzzles to the op shop this week

thrw one item in the bin

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Hi @Shaz51, @Sophia1.

Younger Daughter has been decluttering some of her stuff. I've been secondary-sorting it into stuff that's worth giving away and stuff that's not. And I've been doing a bit of the same with some of the clothes sitting around here.

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Good on you @Shaz51

I have to do little bits or I get overwhelmed. Having said that, each little bit gives me a sense of satisfaction.

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Hello @Shaz51

Thank you for the invitation..

Started on Sunday afternoon as was far too windy in garden again

Achieved filling the hallway with boxes bags Christmas decorations

Then husband decided to put some decorations on highest shelf which I cannot reach.. ???

others still in bags in hall

so after disagreement..he went off in a huff..could here loud sounds coming from computer 👨‍💻

Adrenaline kicked in and I put all hall decorations together

gathered more for op shop

cleaned other shelves moving things to linen cupboard

whole pile of towels for op shop

items from pantry relocated to cleaned out kitchen drawers

items on pantry floor relocated to utility room on shelf

husband reappeared all items for Christmas 🎄 on top shelf that I cannot reach

guess who puts 🌲 together and decorates

advised husband too tired to cook or eat.. we had pizza

back to hoovering dusting.

son-in-law and wife arrived for morning coffee. Still hoovering

They left finished domestics

You her son coming for dinner

made beef stroganoff with pappardelle from scratch

dishes still to be sorted

I am writing on here about cleaning up and decluttering..

Tired..feels so good 😊

Thank you fellow would be.. attempting.. achieving..declutterers..

I have begun ☺️🙏🙀

Cat distressed with boxes and bags

thinks that we are moving again or perhaps who is moving in?✍️💗🙃

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Hello all hopeful declutterers

My. Rust of energy in previous post came to a halt..

stuff for op shop pile still in bedrooms' hallway

cat runs and jumps at it every ow and again

I have had 2 different offers from 2 friends to help which I thank them for and say yes would e lovely. ..

I am just over everything and cannot cope with doing anything about it

not happy with self

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As the Christmas shut down/ break period (for our family typical schedule) rapidly approaches, I have just finished compiling a list of the 'obvious' jobs I have been ignoring. Assigned an optimistic + realistic time score to each task and came up with 30 - 40 days work. Allowing for the fact that some days 1 small task will be more than enough.

I need to make time for some self care (cycling, motocycycling, boating, family whatever... days ) amongst that so 😬

All a bit overwhelming... which is why it never happens.

Time to make a shorter list.

When shorter list is done select one or 2 task from the big list for a new shorter list.

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Good morning @Determined , @Sophia1 , @frog , @Smc , @Doreen , @Dimity

Threw a couple of things in the bin so far

How are you all going

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Hi @Shaz51 decluttering and home maintenance is very apt, last night I tackled the pile of papers on the kitchen table... dealt with quite a few. I need to get back to decluttering and the backlog of paperwork tasks including scanning for a family project.

I need to ring an electrician tomorrow to fix some lights, the safety switch keeps tripping.

Dimity

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