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TheVorticonSenior Contributor
There's just too much rubbish going on today.
- I was part of a mistake at work that is going to annoy the customer and cause problems.
- I have been waiting just under 2 wks to find out info about something and still dunno when I'll find out and it's been stressing me out.
- I need to find something to do at work for the next couple of days.
- Our work team and its future is screwed up at the moment.
- I'm feeling kind of sick today.
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TheVorticonSenior Contributor
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
It has taken a long time @TheVorticon to get to a point that I can say I am making progress but it does feel good to say that. I hope you can get to that point eventually as well. It does take a lot of work and I know doing DBT has certainly helped also.
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TheVorticonSenior Contributor
Thanks Zoe7.
Today I am sad about a few things. I am sad about how things ended with my old psych, I am sad that I couldn't really talk to them, I am sad that I still have some of the same problems as before, I am sad that I feel like no one cares about me (or those that do have too many strings attached to their caring which makes me not want it or distrust it).
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
I understand that distrust in people @TheVorticon - all you want in life is to have one or more people that you feel you can fully trust but being let down so many times that makes it difficult (or impossible) to find that. It is so hard to be sitting in that place with no-one you can reach out to when you are feeling sad or that no-one cares. We do care here but it is not the same as having someone in real life that you can turn to. All of us deserve to have that support but it is hard to find.
I know there is a lot of history with your psych and the relationship you had was not ideal - do you still want to see them again or are you still tossing up that idea?
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TheVorticonSenior Contributor
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
Oh that sucks @TheVorticon I do hope it all falls your way and you can see then again then.
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TheVorticonSenior Contributor
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
You are more than welcome @TheVorticon Tag me anytime you need and ear or just need to unload - happy to be here for you buddy 
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TheVorticonSenior Contributor
NYE thoughts always make me feel like such a pathetic loser. Wish I could just sleep through the next few days entirely.
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
NYE for me this year is about trying to put the year behind me and looking forward instead of back as I usually do. I hope you can have much better days to come @TheVorticon - that is my wish for everyone here.
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