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Christmas Loungeroom

Christmas Loungeroom

For all those who are both celebrating and avoiding Christmas this year the Chistmas Loungeroom is a place for us all to hang out. It is especially for those who will be alone throughout this Christmas period and as a place to come together and enjoy the company of others in what can be a difficult time for many.

Feel free to post your stories, images, grievances, etc. of this period and to leave messages for other members to help each other get through this time of year.

Christmas day can be extra hard for some so this is a place for us all to get together on the day and share it with other members.

@TAB @Former-Member @Shaz51 @Faith-and-Hope @Sans911 @Snowie @CheerBear @Teej @Former-Member @BlueBay @Mazarita @eth @Former-Member @Owlunar @Hope4me @Bunniekins @outlander @TheVorticon @Adge

@Former-Member @Former-Member @Maggie @utopia @Wanderer @MDT @PeppiPatty @Chris @Appleblossom @Sophia1 @eudemonism @Whiteknight @Pepsimax @Crazy_Bug_Lady @Nay69

....Please tag in others as my brain is not working well this morning

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Hi @eth

Great to read your newsy post - and great to see you again - this forum is pretty large and hard to get around to everyone so it is a kind of reunion when people do get together at this time of year

I see you have the anniversary of your Father's passing too - this has to make the whole season a mixed event - my parents both died in January - 4 years and a few days apart so that's coming up for me - yes - we can share these things - for my Dad - 8 years - my mother - 4 years - and the family seems to have broken up a bit since then as I guess it does

I wish you the best for Christmas - I understand "pagan" as being a person of the earth - I left the church some years ago for my own reasons but I have maintained my faith but I rather like the idea of being a person of the earth too - descended from the Great Earth Mother and Earth's Children as we all are

Thanks for your post Eth -

Dec

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Thank you @Appleblossom!

Twerp.

@lhl

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Hi to you too @Owlunar xx

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I really enjoyed reading your post on pagan symbolism @eth. Our Summer Solstice (Northern Hemisphere - Winter) is close to Xmas which makes me wonder if it's significance had an influence over celebrating the Christian tradition.

I think saying a prayer for Mother Earth this year is worthy of mention due to the devistating environmental impact of human interaction 'She' is experiencing. Our Father might feed our soul, but our Mother gives us life.

Love and light;

Hope

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@Hope4me I've read many times that it did influence the setting of Christ's birthday celebration. Interesting stuff but I won't rave about it - it's the sort of stuff people have to find for themselves I think. And I mean no disrespect to the people here who are Christian - each to their own.

I really agree with your 2nd paragraph and would add that it's an important time of year for an attitude of gratitude in many ways including to the Earth (Gaia) for all she provides. And her capacity to regenerate, given enough time.

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Yes, I agree @eth, a rave would suit me too, but given the thread's objectives, it might be something for down the track.

Much emphasis is placed on giving and receiving at Xmas, but it's 'sentiment' that drives us to connect at this time of year I feel.

For many on this forum, the Season represents unpleasant memories, isolation and conflict with family. I suppose this would include those unaffected by mental illness too come to think of it.

Aside from religious dogma, the sentiments of peace, love and gratitude abound. It's what keeps us going to our families for Xmas lunch, striving to heal past wounds and connect with our hearts. Not an easy feat by any means, but we try none the less; each year hoping for change.

Wishing us all the true spirit of this Season; calm, full of smiles from children and cultivating contentment.

Hope

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Yes, judeo-christianity usurped a Pagan Festival which was then usurped by Capitalism. @eth anyhoo its a sign of an end of another year whatever that means to us individually. Probably memories ok or Ghosts of Christmas past for me lol @Hope4me re reply Im feeling not good today and will make sure I don’t feel like this next Tuesday or whenever it is else may stay with me for years. .. I can control my mood. I believe that. Just not today. Feeling Heavy

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Hi @Shaz51

ive had three Christmas celebrations so far and woke up with a shocking sore throat and glands right up this morning - exhausted on many levels ... took today to run around to doctor and then pick my computer up from work so I can work from home tomorrow - I have a massive deadline this week for work and my body doesn’t want to cooperate

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Hey @TAB. I bit bluesy and cruisey...

Maybe that's what you need while you take time out for good behaviour yeah?

Sending nice thoughts your way...

Hope

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