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Nay69Senior Contributor
I’m not sure if you all know but my husband is abusive and truly awful to be around. My baby girl is all I have in this world and being able to talk to all of the beautiful people in the forum. I have had the worst weekend of my life and spent the entire day crying 😢 more like painful sobbing.. I have never heard these sounds from myself ever.
I need you guys ❤️
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TABSenior Contributor
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
@Nay69 I am so sorry that you have had trouble last weekend with husband. I don't know what to say really .... is there any friend that you can go to when husband is being abusive? Better still can you make arrangements to leave husband permanently? I know it is hard but living with an abusive partner is surving not living. Will be in and out today but leave me a message and I will be on later. Take care. Love greenpea xxxx
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Nay69Senior Contributor
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
@Nay69 I grew up with an abusive father and when I could I left home and never looked back. Do you have friends who you can go to?
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Nay69Senior Contributor
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
@Nay69 I have a super busy day happening today, but I wanted to let you know that I hear you.
Please make an appointment to see your dr. Tell them what is going on and ask to see a counsellor for yourself. Your gp can put you on a mental health plan that gives you access to a set of free visits, and that can be extended.
You need support Hon. You need someone to be there for you and to help you find your way forward and out of this abuse cycle.
Abusers are bullies, and bullies think they are getting away with things because nobody knows they are happening ..... so tell someone ..... turn the spotlight into what is happening and your husband will have to back down ...... and you will get help.
Its not good for your baby girl to see women being treated this way. Reaching out for help doesn’t mean you have to leave your husband, it just means taking steps to get the abuse stopped.
We are here and walking with you ..... be brave ..... joining the forums was a first baby step ..... now take the next one .....
❤️❤️❤️
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
ohhhh @Nay69, sending you lots of love and hugs 
sitting and walking with you my friend xxx
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