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Bereavement
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AdgeSenior Contributor
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Thanks @CherryBomb. That's helpful.
I find that it helps me to hear other people's similar experiences.
To have some sense of connection because of those shared experiences.
Grief & loss of someone dear & loved is such an isolating lonely experience.
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Unknown userMember
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Have you read the the SaneForums fact sheets on Bereavement?
https://www.sane.org/mental-health-and-illness/facts-and-guides
Oh gosh, fatigue setting in. (face plant lol) gotta go. Xox
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AdgeSenior Contributor
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Thanks @Former-Member It's good to hear from you.
I have fatigue issues too, as I have sleep apnea which causes daily fatigue. Along with CPTSD, & the effects of 3 major bowel surgeries.
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AdgeSenior Contributor
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1) I am lost for words to describe it - as I have so many losses (especially Dad). My recent increase in dissociation (complex ptsd symptoms) is making it so much more difficult to express.
2) I have great difficulty in navigating my way around this site - so I cannot find the right (or any) place to start a new grief & loss thread.
I do want to though.
Thanks.
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OwlunarSenior Contributor
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Hi @Former-Member@Appleblossom@Adge@CherryBomb@PeppiPatty
All our losses to death are the worst pain - having had chronic pain in my body and for over 30 years now the death of my son - and more recently in the last 12 years 6 family deaths - oh yes - they all vary but some are worse than others and the loss of a child the worst - because when a child goes they take a huge slice of our own future with them - and it is often a young person - and such a waste when a young person dies of anything
We do have a bereavement thread - but I think that we can start a new thread on the same subject because we have a turnover with our membership - people can start the discussion again with a new perspective - and bring different ideas to the conversational table -
But as so many years have passed since my son died I know the wound is deep and does scar over - but those memories - I do know other people have lost a child - which is heart-breaking to know about as well
So we have the subject up again - and let's hope it brings healing just opening up and talking about it in this the most appropriate of places - and I can let you all know that it has helped me sharing here - and I pray it is true for other people
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AdgeSenior Contributor
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I @mentioned you in my grief & loss thread.
Since you said you were interested in a bereavement thread (topic).
I hear you. I'mglad that you found this thread helpful.
Losing a loved one seemslike such a weight to bear.
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