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outlanderSenior Contributor
Hi Guys
im not sure what to do now so im hoping someone else might have some suggestions.
Pop keeps getting upset me with and then says 'well then put me in a nursing home'
Hes not happy either and he says its becasue im not happy.
I tried talking to him, and i asked would he like to talk to someone else like dr or someone else and he said no because he doesnt have a problem.
any suggestions please?
In response to: Help Please
AppleblossomSenior Contributor
@outlander If he keeps saying it. It might be worth calling his bluff and making a couple of appointments to check some out and talk about issues, just to let him know. He might back off with the guilt tripping. But that may not work. I dont know him. Sorry. You do have a complicated mix of things to juggle. Bella Nursing homes are not as bad a situation as they used to be ... well some of them ...
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