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The Good Ole Days :-)

The Good Ole Days :-)

Every now and then you hear people talk about the good ole days.

Last week my family were talking about Cracker Night and having a bon fire in the back yard (early 60's) that all the neighbours came to. For weeks they'd pop by adding old tyres, furniture and anything to the huge pile that would light up like tinder.

It started at dusk; men with a beer, women had home made ginger beer and kids - yummy creaming soda. Cheese, tomato and Jatz was a staple along with a pavlova contest among the women.

Our back yard was on a 1/4 acre flat block; the old style clothes line from end to end was propped up by long raw sticks from the scrub and filled with colourful flags to celebrate. It's awesome I can remember it so clearly.

It grew into a large firey mass throwing out unbelievable heat, crackled, popped and smelled like old rubber boots and pine needles. Crackers were lit only metres from us bursting into flame at times and put out by the appointed fire puter-outerer standing by with the hose. lol

It was fun and oh so memorable. I totally understand the evolved safety laws that prevent bon fires these days, but considering the wonderful community spirit it evoked, a few people hurt by stupidity was sort of accepted due to the social aspect being so enjoyable.

And, any one of those people could've been called on in an emergency in the middle of the night without one complaint.

I've been called an idiot by now generations for talking about it. They laugh and mock as if people were ignorant back in the day. They weren't; they were driven by community, not money.

What are your thoughts? What are your stories?

Hope

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@TAB @Shaz51 Time for me to head off and sort out some dinner - thank you both for the conversation this afternoon. I hope you both have a good evening

Catch up again soon

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ok @Zoe7 xoxo

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Thankyou @Zoe7 and you too. At risk of re starting chat after 12 plus mths not sure why we didn’t before. Anyway it’s been nice. And I’m flattered.

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Not that different to what my mum was doing in 1970 @Hope4me 😸

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Haha @Zoe7 apparently women are way better fishers .. hormones on rig apparently well also supposed to be way better welders guess thats hand to eye coordination and confidence and well patience. Am waiting for a TAFE course on resilience. Prob are some. Think that may have have been a piece missing from my puzzle .. or was that lamb short of a paddock etc lolo

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Not sure what favevmeal is anymore @Zoe7 shouldn’t say it but had cup of bought noodles last night ok phò .. then dipped buttered bread roll into it... it was .. astounding........ re bread roll thingo

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Thankyou too @Zoe7 thanks for the company.. and yes 1 month to reporting back to here re engaging or was that making friends IRL lol well sure lots people like money maybe I could hire a friend baha soz

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It was really nice talking to you today @TAB I think we generally visit different threads and rarely come across each other but connecting here again has been great. It was especilly nice that you felt comfortable enough to open up as you did. Often we have connected over a bit of fun but it was nice getting to know you more. Thank you for that privilege

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Naww you flatter me @Zoe7 but Thankyou..

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Thanks to you too @Zoe7 yes it was nice chatting. 😸 Thankyou
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