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FEELING VERY LONELY

FEELING VERY LONELY

This is my first post hence very nervous. I am a mother of 3 boys. I work full time and hubby also works full times. Boys are studying/working. I have been suffering from bouts of depression and no one seems to understand me at home. My hubby is always too busy with work and never has time to sit down and talk. I shy away from telling my boys as I don't want to burden them with my illness. I feel very lonely and isolated. I had a very strong circle of family support from my siblings but due to some family issues that has kind of now become obselte and I am struggling every day. Not sure what to do and where to go.

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Re: FEELING VERY LONELY

Hi @Lifelive_18.
I'm not sure what you're asking really, but will have a go at explaining and hopefully will stumble on the answers you're after. Apologies if any of this is too obvious, I'm just trying to cover the basics.

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Re: FEELING VERY LONELY

Nicely put @TheVorticon 🙂

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Re: FEELING VERY LONELY

thank you @TheVorticon

hope this has helped you @Lifelive_18

pleas ask any question you may have

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Re: FEELING VERY LONELY

Oh wow, that was so great of you to put it in simple words for me to
understand clearly. Thanks so much.
It has already made me feel so good to know that people can connect and
talk on such a forum and not feel so bad.
I will talk more as the days go.

Hope you all have a great weekend 🙂

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You too @Lifelive_18 .... 😊

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