Dark_OlenaSenior Contributor
Grief help please ...in person
Hi, I need to get in touch with grief therapy group or counselling. This grief for me is not normal its a complicated grief as 3 sisters were totally excluded at our mothers funeral. Mentioned once as children of our mother and then it was all about the care estranged sister gave our mother. Our mother was in a dementia unit.
Theres one toxic mentally ill, I wholly suspect narcisism, sister who likes to command the room so to speak. I vowed to walk out if she got up and spoke, she ran the whole service and this was in God's house. so I sat with my head down. I have so much viscious hate for her and its eating me like acid and at night all I can think of is my mother in the ground. Victims of narcisism can have a side effect of paranoia and now I believe slightly they were sick of not having any drama and negative much needed attention and asked the nurses to up mothers meds for a quicker passing, probably not but I know a narcisists craving for any energy.
When I get slightly distracted from my mother's passing and get bought back to the reality, its a bolt of awful awful ripping panic and disbelief.
Rotten sister likely thought she would get oodles of attention. But us 3 sisters, did not look her in the eye or had a neutral expression, something those type of people can't use.
I would like to know of grief help in person in regional victora.
thankyou
