Topic Tuesday **CLOSED**: Supporting recovery through substance abuse and mental illness

Hi how are you? It's very late but can I post my first question ;

1; I'm very interested in what is the progress on people experience times of mi and other unmet needs and self medicating with illegal substances ?

2; I've had many times experience of being the loved one and carer begging to be heard by hospitals and being turned away. Until..... something bad happens.
I'm very nervous that this is still the case ; is there more progress on carers being heard when dual diagnosis has been a past problem?

There was NO assistence....only 18 months ago in my husbands journey of....not being dependent on alcohol and illegal substances, he had to find out himself.....What is happening now: only 18 months later?

3 More to come,,,,, is this ok?

DEar All,

I have my next question I wasnt to ask;

I have discussed it with my husband who has taken and on the journey of quitting illegal substances.

Last night, I read the wonderful talk info of David...@Hobbit....from ARAFMI talk about his journey. I got some good tips about how to deal with my oldest son and my youngest son who are both on the tip of stepping into unknown territory.

Both my husband and I agree that his journey began many years ago of intense alcohol drinking and illegal substances many years ago to mask pain and the anger of the diagnosis.

Of not getting the proper support from the communnity

The fear of meeting up with 4 Psychiatrists ( I was there more than two times ) telling him that he is a danger to the community.

I was thinking that it was almost unconcious for his to be doing what he did but he says no, it was just coping with an unfair community.

So, what is happening with how the Hospitals are dealing with these examples?

I personally went in there once I put a restraining order on him and I was told, I can ask whatever I wanted I can blame them for whatever but at the end of the day, he was the one that they will listen to.

The social worker was also joking around with the other members at the table which made me feel very insecure.

If the person you are caring for is someone close to you, for example a partner or family member, one huge step to take to help that person stop their substance abuse is to look after their money for them.
It's a decision that would have to be made and agreed upon at a time when the person you're caring for is currently in a good state of mind and genuinely wants to kick their habit.
It's a tough step to take, both for the carer and their loved one. But it CAN work. It means they don't have the cash on them to go out and purchase the alcohol/drugs when the urge hits.
And after a certain length of time (unfortunately usually it takes some months), when they have worked out another way to deal with their bad moments and are well established in a new healthier routine, they can then start becoming responsible for their cash flow once again. Although if it happens too prematurely, it's easy for them to fall back into old habits. So both the person and their carer have to be fully satisfied and convinced that it will work. It worked for me and my son.

Hello everyone and welcome to tonight's Topic Tuesday

Tonight we will be discussing Supporting recovery through substance abuse and mental illness with our special guest @Hobbit.

Thank you @PeppiPatty for sharing some of your experience and for posting some questions to get us started. I'm sure @Hobbit will be able to give you some more information about those shortly.

Just a reminder for @Cmags, @PopG83, @Ross, @BatGuano, @Xander, @Karowa22, @Former-Member and @Lily to join the conversation and ask any questions you may have on supporting a loved one during this journey

Wow, those reactions were very insensitive and unprofessional! I'm sorry you had to go through that.

@Hobbit why dont we start with @PeppiPatty's question of the process involved with people experiencing mental health conditions and self-medicating with illicit substances