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My Dad is challenged with Bipolar disorder - has been for many many years. My Mum is amazing to have managed many challenges that this presents their relationship. We are seeing him sailing a manic high - have not seen this for many years. He is exhausting at the moment...with lengthy text messages - wanting to be overly helpful with domestic jobs for my sister and I but in the end spending money we didn't want him to etc. We need to learn more - want to attend a workshop or something for family members in SA. Also want tips on how to manage response to his escalating texts, lies etc. Any gentle comments around him needing slow down a little or consider us are only met with "Aren't I allowed to be active busy and out and about while I can!" My general approach is picking my battles but when my hubby and I are suddenly getting barraged with text messages ...some of this is about money and needs to be managed to prevent unncecessary expenditure or unrealistic expectations...HELP!!!??
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