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My life partner has Bipolar ii

My life partner has Bipolar ii

I unapologetically care for my husband who after a long mental health crisis has been diagnosed with Bipolar ii + more.

It is a tough gig at times but I believe we can live well in spite of his diagnosis.

I understand that not all relationships can survive a diagnosis and this is no criticism or judgement on anyone but in this thread I would love to give to and receive encouragement from others who hold the same value I have, that is that I voluntarily chose to remain in union with my husband to the exclusion of others and to ride out the bumps of his mental illness.

Dubious humour is guaranteed.

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Yes @Former-Member

and today mr shaz wants me to apply for things , like DSP and others to go for

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Re: My life partner has Bipolar ii

If your doc agrees @Shaz51 I would strike while the iron is hot ... I don't think how many hours you work now makes a difference (you are able to earn whilst on DSP).

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amm have they changed that @Former-Member , think it is still soo many hours , and I am doing too many hours now , just over it i think

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Re: My life partner has Bipolar ii

Wow that sounds good @Former-Member

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Re: My life partner has Bipolar ii

yes I tried 10 years ago but was rejected @Former-Member , @Determined , @outlander , @Adge , @Former-Member , @Faith-and-Hope

going to try again

mr shaz was given a sickness benefit 4 years ago but did not take it

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Re: My life partner has Bipolar ii

@Shaz51 I did find something to do with hours ... it says your condition must prevent you from working at least 15 hours a week in the next two years. This might be something you need to discuss with your doctors. Whilst you may be doing more than this it might not be recommended and your doctors may think it too much. T

https://www.humanservices.gov.au/individuals/services/centrelink/disability-support-pension/who-can-get-it/medical-rules/general-medical-rules

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Re: My life partner has Bipolar ii

Moving is very stressful, it takes some time to settle in and find your feet @Former-Member . For some people that walk straight into a brand new job the transition can be quite easy, others it takes a while if you have a health crisis when you arrive, or in your husbands case he is recovering from one. It can take years to form lasting quality friendships, but its not something that can be forced but just evolve naturally when you are out and about, pursuing your own interests.

Corny

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I think it is fair to say @Faith-and-Hope that your spiritual home is the west coast. Now that you are east side, with so many changes and loose ends it is normal to feel overwhelmed.

Flying back and forth must be tiring but I am sure that you miss the cubs. It will take a long time to adjust, it has taken me almost 5 years. Not everyone ends up in emergency and has a complete mental breakdown like yours truly, but you have so many balls in the air @Faith-and-Hope , huge amounts of responsibility and you are juggling so much pressure. It think your amazing that you can concentrate and haven't crumbled yourself but I am sure some days you feel like you could.

Corny

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hello @Former-Member , how are you going

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