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My life partner has Bipolar ii

My life partner has Bipolar ii

I unapologetically care for my husband who after a long mental health crisis has been diagnosed with Bipolar ii + more.

It is a tough gig at times but I believe we can live well in spite of his diagnosis.

I understand that not all relationships can survive a diagnosis and this is no criticism or judgement on anyone but in this thread I would love to give to and receive encouragement from others who hold the same value I have, that is that I voluntarily chose to remain in union with my husband to the exclusion of others and to ride out the bumps of his mental illness.

Dubious humour is guaranteed.

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@Determined

Thanks Bro, still early days and Mr Darcy is much improved since infection cleared, possibly a bit hyped up, is not sleeping well and is perhaps overdoing things.

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@Former-Member Just checking to see how you are going - sending carer hugs 🤗 and remember to find the good coffee and the good hot cholocate when you need some time out for you with a quality hot beverage - they calm me down and comfort me so much - as does a hot water bottle and also my cats

how is your new dog going ? Hope he/she is fitting in well and settling and not too much work for you both

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@Sophie1 we have 2 dogs, the little fellow is 4 months old, his mum is 3, they are a joy and I am so glad we have them.. They do have their own sleeping crate which they were used to and has been handy with Mr D being unwell so I have kept using it, but we do let them in on the bed after an early morning pit stop as well as at other times. They were a bit of work as the pup fractured his leg but things are better now, although I suspect that toilet training might need extra vigilance when we get some more rain ...

Felt a little twinge of sadness while waiting for Mr Ds first round of chemo. He is so courageous.

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@Former-Member thinking of you

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Hello @Determined , @Former-Member , @Sophie1 , @Totman , @outlander , @Tiggeroo , @mentalnut , @Grasshopper3 , @Faith-and-Hope , @Gazza75 , @Former-Member ,

how is everyone

what can I do ?

i am throwing suggestions and encouragement but does not want to talk about it

Mr shaz wants to stop , had enough / wants to retire

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Feeling for you @Shaz51

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@Shaz51

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It is difficult when motivation is low @Shaz51 .

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thank you @Former-Member , @Determined

had to take mum up to the hospital as she had another fall

back home again now and going to bed

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Not another fall @Shaz51 , was Mum admitted? Hope you are able to get some sleep tonight.

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