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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
Hi everyone my son is sh and is verbally abusing me. I am terrified he may accidently hurt me if he doesnt calm down. What on earth should I do??
I dont want to ring the cops and have them come down or the ambos .... I am just scared.
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I am relatively new to this community but this display of support sits smiling to my heart. Obviously, I wish it was unneeded but it is heartening to know that when a community member needs TLC and support that they get it in droves.
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
That is the power of the community here @Former-Member - we do collectively rally behind those in need despite what we as individuals are going through - and our little pea is often one that leads that support for others so seeing her in need of that TLC brings many of us to her aid - she is one special little pea! 
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liI think that is a truly beautiful thing. I am excited to join this community and proud to rally to @Bunniekins side in her time of need. I pray this goes as well as possible and that there is no harm to anyone and that her son gets the help he obviously needs.
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QueenieSenior Contributor
I hope that emergency services are assisting our little pea (and her son).
I've been on the receiving end of having ambos and Police called on me when I've been acutely unwell. I may not have liked it at the time, but I've always appreciated it afterwards when I could think clearer.
We're all behind you sweet pea!
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
@BlueBay@Queenie@Former-Member@Zoe7@Eden1919@Snowie thank you all so much for your kind words. The ambos have just left they were so sweet and kind also. Have decided not to send son to hospital I just couldn't stand it but am very scared I have to admit will sign off now... and try and get some sleep.
What a wonderful bunch you all are xxx
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
So pleased to hear from you little pea and even more pleased that you have had some help getting through this tough period tonight. I do hope you can now get some sleep @Bunniekins - please check in with us tomorrow and update us on how you and your son are going. Love and hugs to you tonight
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Unknown userMember
I am just glad you and your son are safe. Good night!
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SnowieSenior Contributor
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
@Snowie@Former-Member@Zoe7@Queenie@BlueBay@Eden1919 am awake and hoping someone is too. Cannot thank you all again for your kindness means the world to me. Still scared but less so now hoping son sleeps through the night and wakes in happier.
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
Checking in to see how you are this morning @Bunniekins - hoping you got a little sleep and your son has woken up in a better place too. Love and hugs little pea
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