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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
Hi everyone my son is sh and is verbally abusing me. I am terrified he may accidently hurt me if he doesnt calm down. What on earth should I do??
I dont want to ring the cops and have them come down or the ambos .... I am just scared.
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
Here's one for you BB @BlueBay 
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BlueBaySenior Contributor
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
Copy it into your images @BlueBay and you can use it to change your avatar 
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
Are you on a desktop computer/laptop or on a phone @BlueBay?
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Unknown userMember
Hi @BlueBay,
These are the instructions below for changing a profile pic, which you can find here
To change your profile pic:
I hope that is helpful, if you have saved the picture already 🙂
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
@BlueBay @Former-Member you can't change it on your phone - you will need to log on to a desktop or tablet to change it...
@Former-Member are you able to change it from your end?
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BlueBaySenior Contributor
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BlueBaySenior Contributor
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Help us push aside the stigma and discrimination surrounding complex mental health and change the way people talk about, and care for, mental illness.
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