Hi @MoonGal I think i have mentioned before that I self identify as an aspie. I have a girlfriend who works in disability who had an adult diagnosis and is glad that she has.
As for myself, I have signed up to receive the AMAZE newsletter. They faciliate adult diagnoses .. eg have a list of professionals. Maybe I will get around to it ... today for the first time I was put on a health care plan ... it has taken long enough to get to this stage where I dont have to pay out huge amounts for Osteo and Physio.
I am not in a hurry ... as like you .. I am still me ... with or without labels. .. and I have a tendency to try and find out what is wrong with me ... as I feel like such a reject.
I have gone through a lot of who -ha about it when my son was diagnosed with aspergers about 10 years ago. Did a lot of research.
it is not an intellectual disability @Peter_Pan78 it is seen more as a developmental disorder ... ie it usually becomes evident during childhood or adolescence.
Yes @MoonGal I think we are touching on a delicate area .. back to my SPECTRUM idea ... not just the childhood autism ratio spectrum (CARS) ... but spectrums of all behaviours, traits and what is deemed normal or pathological.
I also have little alarm bell dings ... as some of the issues of women and aspergers may relate to gender roles and perceptions of social appropriateness ... and how that has changed over time ... eg not that long ago in the history of the human race ... women werent seen as able to cope with math or science ... and now they are ... without being thought of as a show off or little professor,
I have settled for being a nutty Nancy and a batty Betty but no-one wants to take responsibility for locking me up ..