I am- Overwhelmed & Traumatised I need your support!!

@Wanderer
I feel so deeply for you, I wish I could just give you a hug & make you a nice cup of Tea/Coffee & some biscuits & cake & help to ease your emotional pain.
I understand how much change can cause such feelings of being all over the place in your emotions.
Change due to Chronic health issues, & life just being what it is, our children growing up & we always want the best for them, at any age. Worry concerning their future & how our own traumatic health issues & what ever else we are trying our best to deal with, will effect our children & their happiness, yes?
You have quit a few big life changing things to deal with at the moment, & maybe just over thinking & trying to carry that weight , without it effecting your daughter, is that right?
Chronic Pain, will always make you feel like, anything that has to be dealt with like its a Mountain.
Our body is being so over taxed with pain, its amazing that you & I can deal with any added burden, without feeling overwhelmed & anxious , if you know what I mean.
I see you as so strong & loving to be able to do what you do, with what you are going through. I believe that as long as you can just be the arms & be there best that you can for your daughter then she knows her Dad loves her.
Change is happening & once you get through step by step what you have to & need to do concerning your marriage, it will work out how ever its meant to work out.
Just take it easy on your self, & don't think badly & negative about yourself if you can, You are doing the best you can do, & that's all you can do. You have a life to live, you have a right to be safe, & happy & at the end of the day. You have to think of you, & your peace, & joy where ever you can get it
Does anything I said help you Wanderer, I sincerely hope so, I do care & am here for you totally 100% ok!
Love & Hugs!
Bella XO :).

@Wanderer
That's ok you have to do what you have to do, you don't need to say or tell anyone more than you are comfortable with. I would rather be here for your friendship, just as you are than you say too much then run away upset.
I understand more than you realize anyway. after all I have been through, if I shred it all in SF it would probably be too much for most people.
We are all a part of this forum for help, & help comes in many different forms & ways. As long as you need to & want to be a part of SF I am here for you as your friend. I don't pester people I just turn up, & what happens, just, happens.
Feel free to post anything you like in my Thread when ever you like, ok.
Have a nice time with your friends, talk again soon!
Bye 4 Now!
Love & Hugs!
Bella xo 🙂

Morning @Former-Member @Wanderer

Hoping todays ok for the both of you


@Former-Member how is your cold? And hows esther going?