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Averting a Disaster

Averting a Disaster

I am a teacher, and currently home on holidays. What a difference this makes to my MI family! My husband and eldest son are managing their symptoms, but my middle son is out of control and in denial. I had put his behaviour down to extreme OCD, but a friend observing recently commented that what he is doing is "delusional", and the scales fell from my eyes. As his psychiatrist and I had both feared, he is showing signs of onset of schizophrenia. That makes three adults with schizophrenia all trying to get by in the same home with no permanent carer!

I am sick of wringing my hands, crying and being stressed to the point of exhaustion. I am thinking seriously of setting up a charity to help my family. They need a full time carer. They need a larger home with facilities to aid their rehabilitation and recovery. And they need a passive income managed by a trustee. Does that make sense? Thoughts?

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@perseverer

Good to hear from you. All men onboard!

Best of sailing to your new home

Grasshopper3

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Hello @perseverer

Thoughts and best wishes for you all..

I sincerely hope that your sons can receive medical Assistance that is meant to be available for every resident of this country..

July is coming closer..

A new start in a new home ..promising for all..

finally some reprieve for you too hopefully...

I wish that We collectively here could do more for you...

being heard is wonderful for the soul ..

take care

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How are things coming along @perseverer

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I have been wondering how things are going @perseverer. Are you managing ok?

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Hi @Former-Member, a lot has happened in the last couple of months. My second eldest child was hospitalized on a treatment order and diagnosed with schizophrenia. This was the best thing that could have happened. I retired from the workforce as it was obvious that my husband was not well enough to care for the boys. I tend not to browse throught SANE so much these days as the excessive political correctness stops me from being able to tell it like it is. I prefer the Facebook groups which are unbridled. I am currently living in the twilight world of waiting for assisted income to arrive and the multitude of supporting documents that are not always forthcoming. The farm in Tasmania fell through but we now have a contract on a wonderful B&B in a grand old Victorian home by the river. Everyone is looking forward to the move. How are things at your end?

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@perseverer

I do hope meds help middle son and he remains compliant and your new home works out well, hoping this means each son has own space. I do hope there are good supports for you too and perhaps new opportunities for birding.

Understand what you mean re: telling it like it is.

Darcy

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I do hope meds help middle son @perseverer

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Hi @Shaz51, how are you doing? Meds have made a big difference ie he is thinking and speaking clearly. He still has a long way to go but early progress is encouraging.

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That does sound good @perseverer .... 💕

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That's good @perseverer, walking with you xx

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