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Fragile

Fragile

For a while I have tried to find a thread I had started when I joined the forum that could be a "home" thread for me.

Being busy about the forum has been a coping style, where I can acknowledge all my different life experiences that had been silenced. Possibly do some good and prevent things from getting worse. Like the little boy with the finger in the dyke.

Feeling fragile

Needing Nurture

Generations: Son to SonMoments of BeautyGrapes are Greatand look out the window ...Namitjara

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I agree @Appleblossom @Abner I love hearing people’s stories regardless of their backgrounds. You can learn so much from hearing and seeing other people’s history and culture it can change your perspective on things or broaden your perspective, which is never a bad thing I think. I don’t just mean ethnicity though also religion, gender diversity, neurodiversity, politics etc you may not agree with everything, but it’s a different perspective and if that makes you think and be more broad minded then I think it’s good.

I have a European part as well a great, great, great grandmother who was Portuguese other than that it’s English and Scottish. I identify with the Scottish part mainly and being me, and my love for nature, I spent some time on the Outer Hebrides.

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That's true @Appleblossom @Till23 , and I don't think we appreciate that different perspectives on culture and life are both valid and inevitable. We shouldn't all hold the same views,attitudes or perspectives

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@Abner true openness is so contested. The left fear hate speech and the right disparage wokeness. Multiculturalism can be used to divide rather than open up opportunity.

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I @Till23 and @Appleblossom , that the European attitude towards nature been at best utilitarian. It's not occurred to us until now that our environment is a living organism that like us can be very badly hurt and become dysfunctional and unstable as a result. We're very good at hurting things and not so good at healing them.

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Exercising free speech is one thing @Dimity , but exercising it knowing it's at someone else's expense is another, and unfortunately our species is always going to do both of those things; we'll never stop either from happening, and I for one intend to stand up to anyone who knowingly exercises their freedoms at the expense of others.

When we talk about freedoms, there was a time when people in Europe had a freedom to send people to concentration camps and death camps. As apalling as that is it was a freedom at that time to denounce them ànd do that. Just because something is a freedom doesn't make it right or conscionable.

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In essence @Dimity , there are times that require us to think about our freedoms and ourselves "Will I use this freedom here, or now...or will I use it somewhere else." And having freedoms means deciding whether one is willing to hurt others in the exercise of their entitlement.

We all hurt others, that's inevitable in life, but to willingly hurt others in the exercise of one's entitlements is gratuitous, especially when you have other people and places you express those views with.

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@Appleblossom @Shaz51 Short on words so sending🥰

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@Zoe7 so lovely to see you drop by. Hugs to you and @Dimity @Till23

@rav3n hey!

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