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Fragile

Fragile

For a while I have tried to find a thread I had started when I joined the forum that could be a "home" thread for me.

Being busy about the forum has been a coping style, where I can acknowledge all my different life experiences that had been silenced. Possibly do some good and prevent things from getting worse. Like the little boy with the finger in the dyke.

Feeling fragile

Needing Nurture

Generations: Son to SonMoments of BeautyGrapes are Greatand look out the window ...Namitjara

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morning @tonys , @Emelia8 , @Appleblossom , @Oaktree , @Dimity

soo good to see you all here 😍

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Thanks Shaz. I always forget about this thread so thanks to those that tag me here from time to time

. I guess me and fragile, go together like, Bull, and China shop..! I hope Mr @Shaz51 can at least plug into a big bowl peaches n ice cream.

Still raining there mate. So long as the suns shines inside us, It can rain all it likes I recon..

Hey, @Oaktree . I have to admit, once in a blue moon, I wake with a feverish, insatiable, craving

for pink fairy floss. Got so bad I climbed up in the ceiling one night, and hooked into a couple

of pink bats.. I hear you. . Keep my day job. LoL. Well mate hot one here today sis.

Say.. did your end up getting an air con, or just waiting for winter specials. Bit less demand then.

I recon this summer has just been a warning of what's in store next summer. Need to tool up for it

now mate. Don't leave it till summers on the doorstep again hey. I planted a heap of trees about

8 years ago around this place and now the house sits in shade mostly. Even so, there are a few

days of the year, when an air con is a must, even here. I'll do the winter prune in a couple of months. Still volunteering at the hospital mate.? Well . . take care Sis.. Big bro tones.

how did you wake up this morn. @Appleblossom . Waking from the setback haze can take a little

time, hey mate. Main thing is, you know that things are not our fault. You tried. and what your going through is what I call, just being a normal human being. " which I'm not, but I do recognise

the look" 😋. Sadness is allowed. being hard on yourself is not. Immersing in all things

fun and challenging on forward direction trails, well that's a must. Your an OAK. . . Apple and I look up to you. tns

@Emelia8 .. well I had a good long chat with my shrink about my jealousy thing with Hannah. .!

She gave me a good patting on the head and a big bag of dried pigs ears too chew on. and a . . .

Now go away.. .!

Hi @Dimity .. Bye Dimity . . and I wonder why i don't get invites.. Lol

Big bag of warm smiles to you all.. tonys

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@tonys

No money for aircon right now but as soon as I can I will get it installed. Not living through another summer like this one. I am expecting a payment of 20k mid year so I will do it then and get solar on my roof to run it.

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@tonys 😂🐶🐷♥

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Much love to you @Appleblossom as expressed on my thread.

Thanks for calling me out @tonys I'll try not to intrude.

Cheerio @Emelia8 @Oaktree @Shaz51 @tyme

All the best

Dimity

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OH @Dimity .. Sorry mate. Think my rotten sense of humour just got me in trouble somewhere

I suspect.. Dimity. . there is nowhere I can see where you have ever intruded.

But to add to that, I really enjoy the chats we have. Funny thing is. I picked a couple of mangoes

just an hour ago and was thinking of posting you that I'm using the Dimity attack posture technique on them.

So mate.. Please don't let me be the bug on your windshield. Far as I'm concerned, your a lady of refinement, with good social skills and fine manners. . . . unlike me who tries to brighten the

house up, only to find , bright pink paint can be a bit much for some folks. I have a bit of an intellectual disability

as well as your run of the mill, garden variety autism, no filter or horizontal adjust dial.

If you are in any doubt about who's on the right side of the ledger when we chat. Please just assume

from now on, its definatley not me. Don't ever take me to seriously my friend and I'm

sorry if put some sort of ill feelings in you...

I know I'm damn lucky to know you and count on your judgement and opinion on things. It helps me see the world through normal peoples eyes.

So .. . this is me , with dog eared hat in hand saying . . Please be my friend buddy.

Very best intentions... tonys..

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Oh noo @tonys ... 'dog eared hat' you say? Surely Hannah 🐶 hasnt gotten into your hat 🎩 rack? 😂💖

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Yes yes yes.. @Emelia8 .. isn't a hot air balloon just the best thing ever.. For me it was the total silence.

I took a ride over the Atherton tablelands . In the palm of the clouds across an emerald ocean

of green.

Maybe next year we both should do it again. Prove to ourselves there are ways of just, leaving

all the white noise to others to squabble over.

The hat. Well I'm not proud of her, but I should, at this point tell you that I do have a dog. Well..

I think its a dog. The people that took over my farm agreed to look after him. Well that lasted about 3 months. He roles around in horse poo and mud. Has hair like a woolie mammoth, appetite and size to match.

But worse than that, he has picked up my bad manners. Goes by the name of, Swamp Thing.

They rang me in desperation and so, on my porch it lives.

I think its a him. Just too much hair and doesn't have a sexual orientation as a hint. All ladies

and gentlemen were subjected to the same humiliation regardless. A true rainbow dog.

I'm a slow learner and would forget my work boots outside on occasion. Hand on heart, all you

get back for change is the steal caps and even they have little dents in them.

Now I just remembered I am on fragile thread I think... I better back peddle my muddy boots out

nice and quietly.

Plus . . I'm hungry, I showed Swamp Thing the picture of Hannah so she see's how a lady behaves. I think its just made him hungry too . . . LoL.. 😋.

Happy thoughts to you @Emelia8 .. and all the nice people here.

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Feeling fragile @tonys so I feel sure our @Appleblossom wont mind us being on her thread. Hope you are okay Apple. ♥

@tonys Your Swamp Thing sounds like a character, I expect we would get along just fine. So are you a retired farmer? I grew up on farms, my dad having worked on farms when I was little. Then he eventually got a small fine wool merino sheep farm of his own. My late husband also had a farming background over in WA, prior to a 20yr Navy career. So we ended up getting a small superfine wool sheep farm too, before we eventually sold and moved to warmer climes when he wanted to retire.

Yes I agree about the hot air balloons. Thats what I loved too. The only noise was the reassuring sound of the gas keeping the balloon inflated. It was all quite surreal. Loved it. I went for a ride over my small home town at the time, in the Southern Tablelands.

Hi @Dimity @Oaktree

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Hi @Emelia8

Are you ok hun? You say you are feeling fragile? How’s your little Hannah doing? I hope she is keeping you company and making you smile occasionally

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