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Topic Tuesday // Feeling anxious when away from your loved one // Tues. 24 Apr. 7pm - 9pm AEST

Topic Tuesday // Feeling anxious when away from your loved one // Tues. 24 Apr. 7pm - 9pm AEST

It's not uncommon to worry about a loved one, but it becomes a problem if it impacts our day to day life.

Does anxiety spike when you have to leave your loved one to go to work each day?

Have you stopped going out with friends because you're worried about leaving your loved one at home?

While the desire to stay at home and keep an eye on a loved one may help you control your anxiety in the short term, allowing it to stop you doing things that help your own mental health can be damaging in the long run.

During this Topic Tuesday we'll open the floor to hear how worry and anxiety about your loved one has impacted your life and share techniques and strategies so you don't compromise your own mental health.

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In response to: Topic Tuesday // Feeling anxious when away from your loved one // Tues. 24 Apr. 7pm - 9pm AEST

Re: Topic Tuesday // Feeling anxious when away from your loved one // Tues. 24 Apr. 7pm - 9pm AEST

@Former-Member - amazing - I really like your way of assessing the likelihood of a scenario eventuating

In response to: Topic Tuesday // Feeling anxious when away from your loved one // Tues. 24 Apr. 7pm - 9pm AEST

Re: Topic Tuesday // Feeling anxious when away from your loved one // Tues. 24 Apr. 7pm - 9pm AEST

Yeah @Former-Member I don’t need pity I need some helpful ideas

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Feeling anxious when away from your loved one // Tues. 24 Apr. 7pm - 9pm AEST

@Tanglefoot - that's great that you're seeing a counsellor
Are you finding that helpful?

In response to: Topic Tuesday // Feeling anxious when away from your loved one // Tues. 24 Apr. 7pm - 9pm AEST

Re: Topic Tuesday // Feeling anxious when away from your loved one // Tues. 24 Apr. 7pm - 9pm AEST

Self care is not something I am particually good at @NikNik,

I have been over most of these suggestions in councilling sessions, catching my thoughts early enough is the hard part.

Gp wants me to do do 20min exercise each evening to burn off nervious energy. (And some fat as a bonus lol)

In response to: Topic Tuesday // Feeling anxious when away from your loved one // Tues. 24 Apr. 7pm - 9pm AEST

Re: Topic Tuesday // Feeling anxious when away from your loved one // Tues. 24 Apr. 7pm - 9pm AEST

Compassion fatigue is a huge concern for carers

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Feeling anxious when away from your loved one // Tues. 24 Apr. 7pm - 9pm AEST

Yes @NikNik I was practicing -

What can I see? What colours are in the room?

What can I hear?

With my psychologist the other day...

I also journal every day.

Adge

In response to: Topic Tuesday // Feeling anxious when away from your loved one // Tues. 24 Apr. 7pm - 9pm AEST

Re: Topic Tuesday // Feeling anxious when away from your loved one // Tues. 24 Apr. 7pm - 9pm AEST

I started a journal when my mum died. I’ve continued it it’s more writing to her but I find I sort things out better than thinking.

In response to: Topic Tuesday // Feeling anxious when away from your loved one // Tues. 24 Apr. 7pm - 9pm AEST

Re: Topic Tuesday // Feeling anxious when away from your loved one // Tues. 24 Apr. 7pm - 9pm AEST

5 4 3 2 1.....
5 things you see
4 things you hear
3 things you touch
2 things you smell

And finally...

1 thing you like about yourself

In response to: Re: Topic Tuesday // Feeling anxious when away from your loved one // Tues. 24 Apr. 7pm - 9pm AEST

Re: Topic Tuesday // Feeling anxious when away from your loved one // Tues. 24 Apr. 7pm - 9pm AEST

Compassion fatigue is a huge concern for carers, sure is @Jodieanne

and we have a thread called " hints and tips to Carer`s success "

at home I find small selfcare things like , doing a jisaw puzzle , soak in the bathe , having a cuppa under the trees outside

when I am away which I think we should all include , i am learning to do a bit more , I think it takes time and it does feel strange to be out @NikNik

In response to: Topic Tuesday // Feeling anxious when away from your loved one // Tues. 24 Apr. 7pm - 9pm AEST

Re: Topic Tuesday // Feeling anxious when away from your loved one // Tues. 24 Apr. 7pm - 9pm AEST

Yes @NikNik the councillor has been helpful
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