Psychosis damaging my relationships

Hi @Golph

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Take Care

SleepyPanda

Dont let an episode of of indiscretion damage 10 years of getting it together.

We all struggle with impulse control. I cannot say what will happen with your partner, but what you do have control over is to reclaim and restate your values and work on trusting yourself.

Also life is not ALL about self control either.

Personally, I have not a lot of experience, but good luck with life. @Golph

It takes courage to sort through things day by day.

Hi @Golph

Yes I have had similar experiences many years ago with what happened to you recently. I agree with @Appleblossom - don't let a mistake and bad choices undo the previous efforts you have put into getting your life in order. Learn by the mistake, reinstate your values and avoid repeating it for any chance of sustaining a relationship based on trust - that's what I had to do. If you genuinely feel remorse - communicate this to your partner; this is doing your upmost to heal the damaged trust. When you make these efforts you can trust yourself to become stronger. We live and we learn. It's only when we don't do the latter that we need to be really concerned.

Becoming uninhibited at a party I guess included excessive alcohol and substance use. They would bring me undone every time and I had to avoid it - I lost many relationships when young due to the latter. But admittedly I was not really trying then. A different story now. Sending you care and strength in your journey to recovery.

@Golph Hi Golph I am the queen of mistakes when it comes to a psychosis .... don't worry .... and I mean this sincerely when I say this life is short don't let mistakes which were brought on by psychosis rule you. Forgive yourself, move on and try very hard not to repeat the mistakes again ... and if you do repeat them because you are unwell brush yourself off and hold your head up high and try again. Love gp xx

HI there @Golph, firstly well done on getting your life on track and organized. Don't feel bad about one incident of indiscretion at a party and let it throw you. Even people without mental health issues have these 'blips' in their lives (and I am calling them blips because while they toss you about mentally, they only last a short while).

Like @Bunniekins has said, I too, am the Queen of mental health driven mistakes. I've lost a lot of relationships in the past due to over-reacting on what were blips. I've driven so many people away (and I still do it now).

What I am saying here is be kind to yourself. Psychosis is a cruel beast at times. I am sorry you are having to manage your life living with it.