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Hi I've been wanting to talk to all you carers to say my daughter attempted suicide last week. She's been treated for four years for depression and emerging BPD. I'm seeing my psyche tonight. Haven't needed to see him for over a year. We've managed really well lately so this came as a shock. I just need reassurance that others have got through this. I don't want to tell anyone because I haven't got the energy to manage their emotions, nor do I want to be responsible for them feeling distressed. Her brother and sister are struggling. Just a few words of "you'll get through this" is all I need right now. xx
Thanks Darcy Determined -Enigma- and Grasshopper3. Not sure how this tagging thing works, but just want to say thanks for your posts and advice.
Got through one more day with grace and humour. Yay!!
Thanks for listening xx
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DeterminedSenior Contributor
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@Dots If you put the @ symbol before each of our namea (eg @Determined) we will get a notification.
It is good that you have been able to recieve some strength from coming here. I know it has been invaluable for me also over the past year.
I understand as will most of us here your feelings of struggling with emitions. It is good that you have been able to keep up with some activities even if it is hard.
Great news also that your daughter is actively engaging with her recovery. Really hope things pick up for you soon.
D
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teachersusanCasual Contributor
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Dogs are a wonderful comfort when caring for a suicidal loved one. Without my dogs I don't know how I would have gotten through the past year with my son and his depression, anxiety,homicide ideation, suicide attempts and drug problems. I wish there was a magic potion to make it all better, but the reality is it needs time, patience, consistency, and love. You have to be strong at the very time you feel most vulnerable Then one day you look back and see you are no longer in the middle of the darkest storm, you are just in a grey and rainy day. Then you have a partially sunny day and realise the season has changed without you being aware of it. Time and love are the real miracles in our everyday life and they can get you through ( along with a good dog). X
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DotsSenior Contributor
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Hi @Determined Just re-reading posts and am so grateful for your care and interest in how things were going with me. hope your studies and work are going well.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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@Dots ❤💪
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DeterminedSenior Contributor
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@Dots. Thankyou for your message How are things going for you now? I trust your daughter Is doing better and you have been able to relax a little. Study is keeping me quite busy at the moment. In the middle of assessment.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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hi @Dots how are things going for you and your daughter?
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DeterminedSenior Contributor
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@Dots Thinking of you and your family, truat all is as well as can be.
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DotsSenior Contributor
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Thanks @outlander and @Determined for checking in. Brings a smile. Life is chugging along. Our house is finally clean again; amazing how things slide. Fridge is bulging with yummy food. My daughter is back to seeing her psyche which is good. We're also back to a day at a time rather than the minutes I was ticking off a couple of weeks ago.
Thanks for listening and thanks again for checking in.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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thats really good things @Dots well done. keep up your supports too
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