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NazNew Contributor
In response to: My brother with Bipolar
BunniekinsSenior Contributor
Hi @Naz I have Bipolar and schizoaffective disorder and to be honest I can understand why your brother might not want to take his medications. The side affects of medications are not great at times. Leaving that aside for a minute I presume he is over 18 and living out of home ? If he is not well maybe that would be a good thing for all concerned (I am thinking of your parents here) if he did.
Does he see a good psychiatrist regularly? It would be great if you could get him there. That would be my first suggestion. Have his meds looked at maybe he hates the often weight gain and sleepyness that comes along with the meds. Maybe he hasn't had a full blown manic episode which has shaken him up up enough to take control over the situation.
So if he was my brother I would try to get him to a psychiratrist and get his meds looked at. I would then be encouraging him to move out of home if he hsnt already to give your parents a break.
Wishing you well. gp
In response to: My brother with Bipolar
NazNew Contributor
In response to: Re: My brother with Bipolar
BunniekinsSenior Contributor
@Naz It is wonderful that your family stand by him (alot don't). Yes the weight gain and other symptoms weigh (sorry for the pun) heavily on many of us with this condition. It is great that he sees his psychiatrist that is a huge plus and that he has you and your family supporting him. At the end of the day though it is his lifel, his journey and he will have to come to certain decisions himself.
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