catching up

Hi @Jacques

Believe me Jacques - if you can ever get past this horrible place in your life - I think women will love you.

I have been reading what you say to the ladies - you are so open with your feelings in a safe place - if the world can become a safe place for you - you will find the woman who is best for you

Back to the world and the "haters". This seems to be a new expression and it is not good that there are people that do things just to somehow justify themselves by openly "hating" and even having a name as if their label "haters" will make it okay

They are wrong though - and there are some people - and you are one of them and so was my son - that are just too beauitul for the world. It hurts you so much - because you are sensitive - and you care.

So I am too I guess - but I am older and I have grown a hide - but still I can get hurt. I have written that I have a very toxic member in my family who has caused unmearsured hurt to other people and I think this person has no concept of the far-reaching affects of such behaviour

In the meantime - this website is a safe-place - and the moderators care that no one gets hurt.

So test the world in a safe place - I have been a member for two or maybe three weeks now and I am finding that people here are kind and care about each other - I am so glad I found it

Time will pass Jacques - and whatever is the best thing for you to do with come to you. I don't know when. Many years ago someone told me this - that what was happening in my life that was making it so hard would change - I didn't believe him

But he was right - things did change - and they have changed and changed and changed again

That is a good thing about life - things will change - and what is terrible for you right now will get easiere - other things happen - the world will be better

Decadian

hi @Decadian,

I have been brought up by my parents to always respect women, my mother was always independent of my father, they had their own bank accounts, work places, rooms, mum never took on dad's sur name when they married, dad liked it that way too, he had tremendous respect for mum and mum for dad.

My views are women are the Vessels of life and should be treated like gods, they should be made to feel like they are the most special woman in the world.

It makes me so upset that men need to be so pumped up on testosterone that they need to abuse women, that shows cowardess to me, nothing more.

I know my views are not universally held, and i know things will not change in the near future, but i hope one day we go back to women being of a higher class then men.

i have met a lovely lady, her name is Karen (@hiddenite) she is very special to me, i know we have never met, but we have such a connection.

I am not into wanting lots of partners, i just want one special lady to enjoy life with, to experiance joy, to confide in, to trust and to support and have support from.

You are such a kind person @Decadian, yes, i am too sensitive for this world, i have never fitted into society, i guess it is too much for me. i don't like what society has become, the narssasistic hatful curuel horrible world, where people seem to need to pick on the marginallised to make themselves feel strong and tough. you are right using terms to "normalise" and almost encourage social discontent.

This is the only place i have found where people are nice and support each other. i have met many special people on here like yourself and maybe, just maybe i have met a lady i can feel comfortable enough with to truly have a relationship with, i feel so lucky 🙂

you are right @Decadian, everything is always changing, and i do hope one day i can be normal, but my life at the moment seems to be a merry-go-round, every day is exactly the same and i seem to keep getting hurt, it seems to be the theme of my life.

I hope you have a nice day, i am going to have some lunch and then go to sleep.

Jacques

I am so glad you reached out to me, i was so worried you did not trust me enough to reach out, please my angel, never let yourself go so long without support, i am so glad you held out last night and chatted, i was so happy you are still safe.

My angel, you know why i help you? because you are special, you have so many good qualities and you are my girlfriend, i would do anything for you and i mean that, i will never give up on you, you are too good a person to go anywhere.

i love you unconditionally too

hugs my angel, every day i love you more and more 🙂

Jacques x