catching up

Hi my angel,

I have finished for the day, got some gardening done, watering too, and even did some work on the shed.

I hope all is going well with the girls, i know it is hard on all of you, wishing you and the girls all the best.

take care my angel, i am here if you want a shoulder to lean on or someone to listen.

i have some relaxing music on and i am doing some video editing.

hugs

Jacques

By the looks of it my angel, tonight did not go well.

You are in my thoughts, i wish their was more i could do, you are such a wonderful person Karen, a kind and loving person.

Please remember always you are not alone, you have friends who care for you, and children who love you.

gentle hugs my angel, i miss you.

Jacques

Good morning my angel,

I do hope you are safe, i got worried about you when you checked in here then left, i know when you go quiet something is wrong, i hope you had someone their to talk to.

Just wanting to let you know i am thinking of you and missing you a lot, hope today is a better day for you my friend.

hugs

Jacques

Hi my angel,

Gosh Karen, why do people keep using you? no one helps but they all seem to have their hand out.

If it where me i would never sign anyone up to a credit card under my name, that would mean i was liable for their card and could land into a lot of legal trouble.

second point is if a family member got themselves into money troubles, it is up to them to get themselves out, i would help with food, emergencies, etc, but would not pay their bills.

Karen, i do hope this helps, you have so many problems to deal with of your own, you don't need someone elses problems. not to mention if you go down this road it will cost you a lot of money, and you really need to look after yourself and the girls.

Maybe offer to pay for a financial councillor for her if she so chooses, so she can get her spending under control and help to manage her money better.

Karen, it seems to me your mother and sister are using you for your money and nothing more. please be careful the money you have has to last you and the girls for the rest of your life, i have been in a situation of nearly being homeless from having used all my mothers savings, it goes so quickly, please be careful and think long and hard before making a decision.

I know the choice is going to be difficult, and you really should not have this pressure on you right now, my thoughts and well wishes go out to you my friend, family can be tough to deal with at times.

good luck my friend. hugs

Jacques

Yes KAren, she does need to learn to manage money and get her priorities right, she sounds very immature, and if she is partying that can't be good for her child either.

Oh Karen, that is terrible she is putting you under so much pressure, you need less stress in your life, not more, and Karen she should never abuse you, you should not tollerate that sort of treatment, i understand why you have such a low opinion of yourself, your family are not nice people, from what you have otld me they seem to use and abuse you, not much better than your husband. if you got even a fraction of support from them i am sure you would be in a lot better place mentally with just a little support.

Gosh Karen, i really feel for you, it is a very unpleasent environment you have around you, it is affecting your MH and you girls too.

Karen, i will say it again youo need to put yourself and the girls first, any money you have will not last forever, and i know from experiance when it is gone, life gets very hard to deal with. i never want to see you in my situation of nearly being homeless.

I wish i could support and guide you better. you are so worth it, you are a wonderful person Karen, i hope i have not been to harsh on your family, i just wish they supported you more.

Hugs my sweet angel

Jacques