catching up

Thank you @Former-Member, you are a wonderful friend, oh yes this will be my little party on here, nachos and cheese platter for everyone 🙂

How did you go today @Former-Member? i hope he got a suitable sentance and now you ca nmove on with your life, just you, your children and the FUR BABIES which are so cute 😄

I know my angel, i know you are scared anxious and upset with yourself, please be gentle with yourself, i am not upset with you, i just want you to get help.

Karen, please don't fight it, can you go into a private MHU? is your private health cover wait time up yet? please let the police and MHU help you, you need to be safe until these feelings pass.

It is ok Karen, i understand, i fight the anxiety every day too, and fight the thoughts you are having, that is why i never keep anything around me that i can use to harm myself, my angel, i know how your mind plays tricks, mine does too, but you are so needed in this world Karen, i need you, your girls need you and the world would be an awful place without you. please be safe, cry if you can and allow people to help you.

Karen, please know you are not alone, i am with you wherever you go, please don't be scared, accept any help that is offered, you are my best friend and always will be no matter what, unconditionally. please stay safe.

let me know you are safe when this is all sorted.

gentle hugs my angel.

Jacques

Karen, i know i have not helped with triggering you, i am so glad you where born otherwise we would never have met, you can't go anywhere, we have never met.

My angel, please stay safe, ok the private does not take critical patients, maybe you could be transfered after a couple of days, when you settle a little?

My angel, i am here for you. you are hurting i understand, you have not had a good week and it got too overwhleming, i get it, please allow others to help you now.

hugs my angel, it makes me so sad too see you hurting so much, i wish i could take the hurt away.

Hi @hiddenite,

I'm so sorry to hear what an incredibly tough day you are having. There is support for you here on the Forums. We are happy to keep you company while things are sorted.

I havent heard what happened today @Jacques sigh, the person i speak with at the dpp is away! so might not hear until monday... unless the sentencing remarks are released online befre then 😞 so frustrating and s much anxiety in not knowing!

Hi @hiddenite I hope the problem with the police is not too serious. Is it something that you can discuss here, or at least how much affect it will have on you, that way we may be able to brainstorm how to cope with it for now. Remember things are often not as bad asthey first appear. Try to step back for a minute and imagine what you would say if it were @jacques in your situation, how would you support him? and try to turn some of that compassion that i know you would have, back onto yourself.

Here listening reading, and caring,

LJ

my angel, i am here for you, please keep talking if you want, i just don't want to get you into any more trouble, i am here for you, i will never leave your side.

my angel, i am not strong, you just have more responsibilities, more pressures, i don't have the pressures you have. please be kind to yourself, now is the time to be gentle with yourself not ask yourself why.

Karen you have just reached a stage where you could not manage the hurt, reach out for help now Karen, i know how scary the MHU is, but you do need to be safe Karen. i will be here everyday to support you through this Karen, every day, even if you can't answer i will write.

@Former-Member, i am really shocked that a receptionist or another lawyer from the DPP did not ring to let you know, at least a phone call. could you ring the DPP office to find out?

Yes i can understand how you must be feeling @Former-Member, i do hope it was adequate to the crime he commited. please don't be to harsh with yourself over the sentence, you have a new life with you little angels and you have moved on, with his sentence he will have limited access to the children anyway, i know from cases of friends of mine.

i am so glad things are working out for you @Former-Member, you deserve a better life and you now have it. hugs to you and hugs to the fur-babies 🙂