JacquesSenior Contributor
catching up
hi @hiddenite my angel, here is our new home.
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catching up
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hiddeniteSenior Contributor
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We didn't do too much just birthday shopping and we made some gingerbread men and decorated them. We played games in the afternoon.
The girls are finally back in their own bedroom now. It too six weeks to fix.
Please look after yourself Jacques
The girls are finally back in their own bedroom now. It too six weeks to fix.
Please look after yourself Jacques
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JacquesSenior Contributor
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Everything is all good Karen, i just need to toughen up 🙂
good for you, nothing like playing games, i used to love playing hide and seek when i was young.
Wow 6 weeks, i bet they are happy to be back into their own room, i am sure they have all their toys out too 😄
My angel, how are you feeling tonight?
It is so nice to have a quiet weekend Karen i bet? how are you sleeping of a night?
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hiddeniteSenior Contributor
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Still really low I hate feeling like this.
I m worried about the house I want to get stuck into the renovations but I can't until the girl's go back to school.
the sooner we move in I think my mental health wil
l improve being away from here
I have until june to finish the inside or else I will have to pay 10 thousand dollars for stamp duty.
Im feeling the pressure.
Jacques you are the toughest person I know. You keep going every day and fight even when you don'twwant to. I admire your strength Jacques
I m worried about the house I want to get stuck into the renovations but I can't until the girl's go back to school.
the sooner we move in I think my mental health wil
l improve being away from here
I have until june to finish the inside or else I will have to pay 10 thousand dollars for stamp duty.
Im feeling the pressure.
Jacques you are the toughest person I know. You keep going every day and fight even when you don'twwant to. I admire your strength Jacques
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JacquesSenior Contributor
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Yes my angel, you sound a little flat, Yes, i know the feeling, i am at a stnad still to, still waiting for the plumber, and can't start the kitchen because we need to recoup some money.
Yes i agree Karen, i do think where you are is having a major impact on your MH, i am so excited about you starting your new life, i can see how good it is going to be 🙂
Is it possible to do 1 bedroom, the kitchen and bathroom so you can move in? then do the other rooms when you can? mum dad and i lived in 1 room for 1 month while we rebuilt the inside fo the house, it is possible Karen. anyway whatever you decide i just can't wait for you and the girls to be free. i think it will help the girls too 🙂
We are both strong Karen, you fight too, i am so grateful you do, you are the only person i know and my only friend. you make each day worthwhile for me to get up and face the day 🙂
Is their anything you can do to help improve your mood? Has anything worked in the past?
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hiddeniteSenior Contributor
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Usually I go bush but I cant while the girl's are home. The other way is not so great as you know well but effective.
How to release built up emotions in a healthy way .
How to release built up emotions in a healthy way .
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JacquesSenior Contributor
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Oh my angel, that is too bad, please don't SH it is not good for you, i worry about you doing it and i don't want you to hurt yourslef anymore.
Is their anything i can do to help? do you have any hobbies or interests?
how about a little joke?
A teacher asked her students to use the word "beans" in a sentence. "My father grows beans," said one girl. "My mother cooks beans," said a boy. A third student spoke up, "We are all human beans." 😄
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JacquesSenior Contributor
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you must admit it is a little funny? i hope it put a little smile on your face 🙂
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hiddeniteSenior Contributor
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Thats a good one thanks Jacques.
I knew you would understand thank you. I know we can't talk about it I don't want you to get into trouble.
But you are the only one who understands this.
Its just nice to get it out in the open.
I used to draw but I can't anymore because of the shaking.
I want to start walking again. There is a trail that runs through town. It goes from lilydale to Warburton. It passes through bush and farmland. It is just beautiful. I love the horses and the black angus cowes. The mountains are so pretty when it got you can smell the eucalyptus.
I miss living in the bush with no one around.
I knew you would understand thank you. I know we can't talk about it I don't want you to get into trouble.
But you are the only one who understands this.
Its just nice to get it out in the open.
I used to draw but I can't anymore because of the shaking.
I want to start walking again. There is a trail that runs through town. It goes from lilydale to Warburton. It passes through bush and farmland. It is just beautiful. I love the horses and the black angus cowes. The mountains are so pretty when it got you can smell the eucalyptus.
I miss living in the bush with no one around.
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hiddeniteSenior Contributor
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Yes j a little smile thank you
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JacquesSenior Contributor
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i know it was silly, but a little smile is better than none.
It is ok Karen, i understand, i just wish you could find a healthy release too, it would help immensely.
OMG you draw, i so wish i could, maybe you could draw as best you can, it might help take your mind off things, even if it isn't good, it will give you a sense of doing something, i love art, all kinds, it is so cool you can draw, my hands shake bad too, but i am getting the urge to build another boat, i am going to get one soon, i will do it when i am not shaking and leave it when i cna't do it, no pressure, it will get finished in it's own time. maybe you can do the same 🙂
OMG Karen, that sounds so beautiful, i so wish i could walk with you, it sounds so Divine, so blissful, i know what you mean, when i used to walk their where so many people around, i felt so uncomfortable. you are so lucky to be moving to a place like that, i am so jealous 🙂
you are so lucky to have a beautiful place to walk.
