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My special place

SnowieSenior Contributor

My special place

Well yesterday certainly threw everything off track. But thanks to some very thoughtful and kind people I was able to get threw it and continue.

I cannot say a lot about what happened as I am sure you all understand but need this support in place.

Things WILL be ok, just a lot to work out.

Psych visit yesterday sorted out some of the things and more things will be happening early next week.

I am sorry if I put anyone through any despair, but unfortunately what happened yesterday morning had to be done.

Thank you all for your continued support.

@outlander@Sans911@Former-Member@Bubbles3@Bunniekins@Shaz51@CheerBear@Phoenix_Rising@Faith-and-Hope@Former-Member@Zoe7@Queenie@Former-Member

Brain still not functioning anyone so sorry if I missed anyone

for @Phoenix_Rising as I know how much you don't like love hearts!!!

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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I'm sorry that happened to you @creative_writer especially when the pdoc was meant to be helping you. Unfortunately it was a family member who says these things to me.

That sounds yummy for tea. I just cook things that the whole family will eat.

Hopefully I can say what is needed. I guess if I don't then it's my fault. Can't get help unless I ask for it.

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creative_writerSenior Contributor

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@Snowie it’s hard if a support blames you. It’s also hard when family blames you too. I have been fortunate that my parents have never blamed me, but it doesn’t take away my childhood trauma. It’s hard when parents have their own issues. The oldest child often is prone to being emotionally neglected too. It is rough with family, because you want to be able to turn to family for support but you’re not always able to get it.

It’s not your fault if it’s too hard to say. Are you able to give the paper to your pdoc if you are unable to read it?

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tymeModerator

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Hugs @Snowie

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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I really don’t want pdoc to worry about me @Snowie anyway enough of that.

Im having eggs on toast tonight, back to reality after being spoilt last night but Ill do an Irish stew tomorrow for St Patrick’s day. I don’t know why I bother but the food has been bought.

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tymeModerator

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Hey @Eve7 @creative_writer @outlander too.

I've missed you all

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@creative_writer I'm lucky I have a hubby who supports me. There are some family members that I don't see anymore that show no support. I had no choice but to remove them from my life.

Thats really good to hear that you have your parents support. I hope they continue to support you.

My appt. with pdoc is tele health tomorrow, so I have to say it out loud.

@Eve7 Eggs on toast sounds yummy and easy to make! I hope your St Patriks day stew comes out good. Will you be able to make a few meals out of it.

Hi @tyme I hope you weekend is going well

I'm trying to do the right thing, but it is just so hard.

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creative_writerSenior Contributor

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@Eve7 I get that you don’t want your pdoc to worry, it’s a natural repose. Sending you healing vibes💖

Hi @tyme how are you?

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creative_writerSenior Contributor

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@Snowie I am able to get some support from parents in certain aspects of my life, which I am grateful for. My dad is still supporting me financially. I also don’t have to cook all my meals. Though I am not able to get enough support emotionally, but I can live with that.

The really toxic person in my family is my late uncle’s wife. We never see her and barely saw my uncle. He died on the young side, and I sort of blame her. It’s also sad I don’t know my cousins from that side either. Sometimes you do need to place boundaries with toxic people to protect your sanity.

If your pdoc has an email address, you can always email if needed

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tymeModerator

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Sitting with you @Snowie , sounds so hard for you right now.

Hugs

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tymeModerator

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@creative_writer , I'm doing the best I can right now so all is well 🙂

@Eve7 , and how hard is it to get eggs now??? When I see them, I have to buy as much as I can!

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