My special place

Sending you lots of hugs my @Snowie ❤️ sitting with you

I think breaking it down into sections of what need to be done now step by step

Like becoming her Epoa

I know it is very hard not to think too far ahead

@Jynx my mother lives with us as it is. She has her own granny flat linked to our house, so I guess it is just a given that I will be the one to care for her. She has no one else.

Thanks @Shaz51 It is hard not to think too far ahead, but I do think we just have to take it day by day.

Just finding tonight a bit hard, don't think I have any tears left. Really should stop reading things.

I really hope in all of this you are still able to continue with what your family needs to do @Snowie especially having your snow holiday this year. Creating family time will be important hon.

Lots of love 💜💜💜

Sending you understanding hugs @Snowie

I became my mum's carer , epoa, sold the car , aged care services,, meals on wheels before the doctor put her in hospital aged care

Thanks @Eve7

I am hoping our holidays can go ahead but I really think it is just a matter of wait and see.

Bit by bit.

@Shaz51 might be picking your brain in times to come. You certainly are a wealth of information.

Anyway, how are you both going today?

You can pick my brain 🧠 anytime 😊 my awesome friend 🧡 @Snowie

No work today, Mr shaz had a kidneys scan today as his kidney function has declined suddenly to 50 % and falling

Tomorrow he has another scan and blood tests and gets the results next week 🙃

@Jynx

That's hard @Snowie to have it become you by default. I hope a balance can be found in terms of ensuring her needs are being met, whilst also ensuring you can continue to meet your own needs 🤞

Thanks @Shaz51

Will certainly pick your brain.

I'm sorry to hear about Mr Shaz. What does that mean moving forward?

@Jynx I guess no point complaining over something you can't change. It has already started in some ways, I have been going to every medical appt. with her for awhile now.

Hopefully I can find a balance when it is needed.

Waiting for the results to see why first @Snowie , @Jynx

Mr shaz is feeling totally had it , sick in the stomach because of it all , anxious

I am trying to be strong for both of us

And I still getting my mum's stuff in order 🙃

Aww poor Mr Shaz!! @Shaz51 it's all getting extra hectic for you hey. Sending some big hugs 🫂

We do what we can eh @Snowie? Huggles to you as well hun 🫂