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My special place

My special place

Well yesterday certainly threw everything off track. But thanks to some very thoughtful and kind people I was able to get threw it and continue.

I cannot say a lot about what happened as I am sure you all understand but need this support in place.

Things WILL be ok, just a lot to work out.

Psych visit yesterday sorted out some of the things and more things will be happening early next week.

I am sorry if I put anyone through any despair, but unfortunately what happened yesterday morning had to be done.

Thank you all for your continued support.

@outlander@Sans911@Former-Member@Bubbles3@Bunniekins@Shaz51@CheerBear@Phoenix_Rising@Faith-and-Hope@Former-Member@Zoe7@Queenie@Former-Member

Brain still not functioning anyone so sorry if I missed anyone

for @Phoenix_Rising as I know how much you don't like love hearts!!!

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Hugs @Snowie sorry todays isn’t good

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He's doing the ski season there @Snowie for six months. He did it last year. He works in the resort fitting ski boots for the tourists. He loves it. He did Thredbo this year and thinks he might try France next year. Ah the life of the young!

Yep Japan is amazing. We loved it too.

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Thanks @Bow How are you going?

oh he is so lucky @hanami We are members of a lodge up at the snow and go there every year.

It really is a special place to go. My kids have skied since they could walk!

I've only been to Japan once and that was in their Summer. It was very hot!

Do you like to travel?

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Oh that's awesome your kids can ski and have done since they were little. Amazing.

I love to travel just dont' get to do it enough. We've been to Japan twice, once in Spring and once in Winter. Was so cold but all the Christmas stuff they had was so pretty. Spring was amazing though. We will probably go again soon to visit my son...so in the cold again. Yep I've heard how hot their summer is! @Snowie Have you been to other countries?

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My husband went to Japan for the snow with his friends @hanami . Was a boys vacation!

I love to travel but haven't done much. Now that the kids are older we will probably do more.

Been to Bali, Thailand, Japan and America.

Would love to do Europe and Africa.

Would live to do a white Christmas one year. Probably in Japan.

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I'm sorry, it must be really hard to be navigating this when its bringing up so much for you 💛

What are some ways that you are finding it helps? @Snowie

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I think that is one of the problems @fluffylight I don't feel that it is helping. It just seems to make my flashbacks more intense. The flashbacks we have 'processed' are still coming up quite a bit and still seem to have strength behind them, if that makes sense.

I know emdr doesn't work for everyone. I know it can take time, I guess it just comes down to how much I can endure and how I go about coping with it.

My unhelpful behaviours seem to be winning at the moment.

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Hi @hanami @Snowie I’ve been to Japan over night only, but I’ve been to US, Argentina, Chile, Peru and Mexico and Cuba lots of times. Hope you are doing ok

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that's awesome @Snowie . You'll love Japan in winter time. It's very pretty. And I love all of there very seasonal things like different foods for the seasons....pink icecream for spring etc. I can't remember winter themes, just how amazing their Christmas decorations were!

Logging off soon so will talk soon

x

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I’ve just been shopping for a baby shower I’m attending on Saturday @Snowie

There was a gift registry so I bought 6 onesies, a swaddling wrap and the very hungry caterpillar.

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