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My special place

SnowieSenior Contributor15 Feb 2018, 9:51 am AEDT

My special place

Well yesterday certainly threw everything off track. But thanks to some very thoughtful and kind people I was able to get threw it and continue.

I cannot say a lot about what happened as I am sure you all understand but need this support in place.

Things WILL be ok, just a lot to work out.

Psych visit yesterday sorted out some of the things and more things will be happening early next week.

I am sorry if I put anyone through any despair, but unfortunately what happened yesterday morning had to be done.

Thank you all for your continued support.

@outlander@Sans911@Former-Member@Bubbles3@Bunniekins@Shaz51@CheerBear@Phoenix_Rising@Faith-and-Hope@Former-Member@Zoe7@Queenie@Former-Member

Brain still not functioning anyone so sorry if I missed anyone

for @Phoenix_Rising as I know how much you don't like love hearts!!!

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SnowieSenior Contributor30 May 2023, 9:17 am AEST

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Sleep wasn't ideal last night. Couldn't get to sleep and then when I did couldn't stay asleep.

Will try and have a nap today.

Meant to take mum to doctors but she cancelled her appt. She wants to see a more experienced doctor which she will have to wait a few weeks for. I actually agree with her with this one.

Meant to go do some food shopping but will see how I go.

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outlanderSenior Contributor30 May 2023, 11:59 am AEST

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if you can @Snowie see about speaking to a geriatrician. i have pop seeing one and she and the nursing staff at the clinic have been really good at helping not only him but also myself as well with other support referrals and being validating as well.

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SnowieSenior Contributor30 May 2023, 12:00 pm AEST

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Thanks for the info @outlander

When we see the doctor I will make sure I ask about it.

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outlanderSenior Contributor30 May 2023, 12:04 pm AEST

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also speak to my aged care. they can help you get services in place like social supports (like accessing the community, taking her shopping, taking her out for walks just social type stuff), assistance to help her with medications, meals to either cook or can help with something like meals on wheels, gardening as well. you dont need the dr to refer you to that either. you can just go online and make a self referral for your mum and they will either come and see in person or do a phone appt to do an assessment

https://www.myagedcare.gov.au/make-a-referral

it can take a while so sometimes the earlier the better

@Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor30 May 2023, 12:12 pm AEST

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Thanks @outlander

I will look into it and see what is available for her. She is ok at the moment but I do know these things can take a long time to organise so I guess the earlier the better.

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outlanderSenior Contributor30 May 2023, 1:36 pm AEST

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usually they start with low level stuff until they need more @Snowie to start with pop was only able to have 2 hours a week for social support and physio (that my aged care would cover and not me paying as a private client) now if i didnt live with him i couldve got him his lawns done for a low cost (like $20 a fortnight), assistance with cleaning and cooking, when he had a fall and needed help with showers i was able to get him that as well.
your mum might only qualify for 2 hours support but maybe thats what she needs. sometimes they just come in have a cuppa and a chat and do some minor cleaning (dishes, bring in the washing etc) might be less stress for you too

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SnowieSenior Contributor30 May 2023, 2:02 pm AEST

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I'm glad you have got help with your pop @outlander

At this stage mum can still do everything for herself. She even still drives so not sure what I will be able to get for her, but I will try anyway.

She is acting like her life is over. I have tried to tell her that isn't the case but she isn't listening to me. But that is nothing new.

I have told her to make an appt. with an experienced doctor but has yet to do that yet. It will be a wait as we haven't got enough Doctors where I live, but I guess everywhere is like that.

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outlanderSenior Contributor30 May 2023, 2:07 pm AEST

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hopefully the wait to see an experienced gp isnt to long @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor30 May 2023, 5:29 pm AEST

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Today has gone downhill quite quickly. Keep dissociating.

Reached out for help and just got told the same old thing.

When will chat be back?

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amber22Senior Contributor30 May 2023, 5:44 pm AEST

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Hey there @Snowie

I'm sorry to hear that today has been a bit challenging for you.

Unfortunately our webchat might be off the radar for quite a while, would connecting through Lifeline webchat or SCBS be something that could be helpful?

Our drop in line is still available if you need it as well

Sending hugs

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