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My special place

SnowieSenior Contributor15 Feb 2018, 9:51 am AEDT

My special place

Well yesterday certainly threw everything off track. But thanks to some very thoughtful and kind people I was able to get threw it and continue.

I cannot say a lot about what happened as I am sure you all understand but need this support in place.

Things WILL be ok, just a lot to work out.

Psych visit yesterday sorted out some of the things and more things will be happening early next week.

I am sorry if I put anyone through any despair, but unfortunately what happened yesterday morning had to be done.

Thank you all for your continued support.

@outlander@Sans911@Former-Member@Bubbles3@Bunniekins@Shaz51@CheerBear@Phoenix_Rising@Faith-and-Hope@Former-Member@Zoe7@Queenie@Former-Member

Brain still not functioning anyone so sorry if I missed anyone

for @Phoenix_Rising as I know how much you don't like love hearts!!!

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SnowieSenior Contributor16 Sept 2022, 6:16 pm AEST

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I am glad he is going good @outlander Takes a bit of pressure of you. Hopefully there are other members of your family helping out with him too.

Hopefully you can get your assignments signed of sooner rather than later hon.

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outlanderSenior Contributor16 Sept 2022, 6:21 pm AEST

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only the person styaing with us and she is a cow to say the least. @Snowie but no one else seems to see it besides me and mum. shes even taking all of pops own friends and interferes with all of his care (as in always buts in and acts like she knows everything and the world revolves around her when is care workers come over to help him)

im working on some assignments while im talking to you but these ones are super hard and i dont really have the brain power for them. so many of the questions are irrelevant and dont really make any sense

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SnowieSenior Contributor16 Sept 2022, 6:36 pm AEST

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Sorry to hear that @outlander

Is she meant to be staying for long?

I am glad your mum sees her for the person she really is.

Must be hard for you when she comes in and tries and take over when you have been doing such a wonderful job with your Pop for so long now.

I hope you are able to get through your assignments.

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outlanderSenior Contributor16 Sept 2022, 6:49 pm AEST

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well she actually never said she was moving in she just moved herself in.
then she said shes getting a job and moving out. 7 months later and still lives here and wont pay rent or bills or contributes to food expenses or anything so it makes it really hard. anytime i say anything she goes running to family and makes out that ive said something that i havent said and then i get yelled at.

makes it really hard sometimes. cant do much about it atm though so will just focus on what i can

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SnowieSenior Contributor16 Sept 2022, 6:54 pm AEST

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That must make it hard for you @outlander especially if she is not helping with rent, food, etc.

That and she sounds like she twists everything you say.

You are right however, that you cannot control what she does. I hope she does move out eventually and you can get some peace again.

Will say goodnight hon. Going to go have a shower then hope into bed under my weighted blanket. I am sure the dog will join me too!!

I hope you have a good day tomorrow and can get some of your assignments completed.

Thanks for keeping me company. Lots of love 💌💌

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outlanderSenior Contributor16 Sept 2022, 7:20 pm AEST

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Thanks @Snowie I hope you sleep well. I’m sure the dog will def keep you company!

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor17 Sept 2022, 7:30 am AEST

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@Snowie I'm sorry to hear there's still no answers for D's health. Hoping the meds help.

@outlander that lady staying with you sounds awful. Good luck with your assignments and everything...

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outlanderSenior Contributor17 Sept 2022, 5:48 pm AEST

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thank you @NatureLover slowly getting there. got another one done. only 19 to go now

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SnowieSenior Contributor30 Sept 2022, 12:20 am AEST

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Hi all my friends,

I feel like I have been a bit absent lately.

There is much happening. Lately most of it has been out of my control which makes it harder. Harder also,when different family members think they know better then I do.

I have tried to stay calm but it just makes me more agitated and angry. I now know why people just want to give in to it all.

Did sleep a little bit this evening. Have taken some extra meds and prn and hoping to sleep a bit more, but doubt it would be that easy.

Thanks if u,have read this.

Not sure what to do and just too tired and pathetic to try anything at all.

Sorry

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BowSenior Contributor30 Sept 2022, 1:01 am AEST

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Thinking of you @Snowie 💕

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