Supporting a partner in a crisis

Hi @Jacques

Checking in to see how you are going.

Hi @Former-Member,

sorry i haven't been on much, i have had the flu and im feeling really out of it, things are going ok, my partner is coping at the moment and we are supporting each other on the days needed

i hope you are well, thank you for caring

hugs my friend

@Jacques So good to hear life is steady and not too bad. Flu is a nuisance but we get thru it.

@Jacques So good to hear you and your girl's lives are steady and not too bad. Flu is a nuisance but we get thru it.

hi my virtual mum @Appleblossom thank you, yes things seem to be ok at the moment, yes, the flu is a nuscance but it is part of life, how is your son and his partner going, how are you going?

@Jacques How are your hands. Are you able to do any of your models or other interest?

We are not too bad. His gf came over last weekend and they are both singing in one of my choirs and both singing in an opera. So that seems a good balance.

The nittygritty of MH stuff is being worked through.

my hands are stil shaking to much for me to work on any fine model work, it breaks my heart i can't do them much anymore, i really do want to get back into it, but i just can't.

i spend most of my time now on the computer, doing various things, and im helping a friend run a gaming server.

im glad things are going good with the three of you, it makes me happy to hear that.

yes the MH stuff is so tedious and frustrating, but we all need to work through it and find strength each and every day

Have you been able to do antly walking @Jacques

yes @Former-Member im walking every day, even when i have the flu, i have also joined my partner in not drinking coke, so we are on a real health kick at the moment, my partner is being put under a lot of pressure to lose weight by her psych, i think it is really unethical, but im supporting her in her decision