outlanderSenior Contributor
rough time
is anyone around to talk to atm
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
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Choir people were involved in both days and there was a mini flashmob, but the events on both days were wider than that.
Sorry @outlander your head is giving you grief. Is it anything you want to talk about?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Sounds like a good time! Its good to see people enjoying themselves at fundraisers @Appleblossom
Life is just a mess at the moment i suppose. Just had enough. Just hard knowing just how replaceable i am in this life, loosing more supports today, wishing i was more normal.. Pain isnt making it any easier either..
Life is just a mess at the moment i suppose. Just had enough. Just hard knowing just how replaceable i am in this life, loosing more supports today, wishing i was more normal.. Pain isnt making it any easier either..
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
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Dealing with chronic pain always adds extra difficulties. 
In that sense make sense to want to be other than you are.
I have often thought "I wanna be me .... minus the pain".
When they are inextricably linked for a period of time ...
Being replaceable, is something different.
Has your mum arranged stuff with kids without telling you ...
This is 1st week of school hols in my state.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Yeah chronic pain really sucks. Have new pains too that are trying to be treated but am on a waitlist on am on lots of pain meds and muscle creams and heat packs. Lots of work.
Its the first week here too and so far ive got them over the weekend except one whos out at a job thing. And then monday and tuesday and Wednesday and the weekend most likely. Mum hasnt arranged much. Ill probably be the one doing all that but she will have to help with some expenses. I hope anyway otherwise we won't be doing much. @Appleblossom
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
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You pain issues sound dreadful.
One good thing about being replaceable is that it eases up the responsibilty on your shoulders.
Sometimes it is good to have a pj day in school hols.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Yeah ive got a bad tooth that needs coming out but cant till another week and then all 4 wisdom teeth are coming but they arent coming through properly so need an oral surgeon eventually. Its a bad flare atm causing neck swelling and stiffness on top of whatever is happening in kidneys. Never rains always pours. .
Pj days can be good but 2 arguing kids everyday because they are bored drivea me crazy so will have to find things to do each day.
Yes i guess it does ease responsibilities helps to know when im gone things will carry on. @Appleblossom
Pj days can be good but 2 arguing kids everyday because they are bored drivea me crazy so will have to find things to do each day.
Yes i guess it does ease responsibilities helps to know when im gone things will carry on. @Appleblossom
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
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what is happening in kidneys. @outlander xxxxx
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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They arent sure @Shaz51 it is mimicking a kidney infection but it isnt that or anything showing on ultrasounds except pancreas but they don't know what that is either. I find out more on tuesday when i speak to the quack again.
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
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Oh no I did not mean it like you being gone @outlander
You would be greatly missed.
Our sense of being special meaningful or unique, is something we all have to come to terms with. It can vary at different times.
Sometimes it can be enough, other times we can seek being needed as a substitute for not feeling appreciated.
I need to log off soon. Hope you can get some shut eye tonight.
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
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kidney infection go full steam ahead sis @outlander
when you have it , it just gets worse and worse
