outlanderSenior Contributor
rough time
is anyone around to talk to atm
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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I have that happen sometimes too @outlander - it is not about anything anyone has done it is more about not having the words or energy to engage with others. Sometimes we just need time to ourselves to feel what we feel and get through without having to 'answer' to anyone - whichever way you go you know we are here for you and with you Hon.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Thanks for understanding @Zoe7
I really want to be here. I guess its abit of i dont really know what to say thatll be helpful and the tiredness. It is really hard for me but i guess for now just hanging around a few threads and those im most closest too would help with reconnecting abit tonight. I want to talk to everyone but i also know thats not possible or not at thr same time at least. Is that makng any sense?
I really want to be here. I guess its abit of i dont really know what to say thatll be helpful and the tiredness. It is really hard for me but i guess for now just hanging around a few threads and those im most closest too would help with reconnecting abit tonight. I want to talk to everyone but i also know thats not possible or not at thr same time at least. Is that makng any sense?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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@CheerBear thank you also for thinking of me on other threads 💕
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@outlander
Love U!
I hope this makes you smile!
Love & BIG Hugs!
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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Makes complete sense @outlander. These are the times when you need to think about yourself and stick to those you are closest to to help support you. It takes courage to ask for help and also to say that you can't give that support to others yourself at the moment.
Others will understand - and quite frankly if they don't then they need to check themselves and realise that it is about give and take and not simply about taking - the giving here is to you right now - you will give back when you can in spades Hon - tonight take the support
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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Often thinking of you @outlander. For what its worth, it's really awesome watching how far you're coming though I get it probably doesn't feel it at times. You're looking after you in lots of ways and it's fab to see.
Big hugs 💗
Big hugs 💗
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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It is so good to have people that 'get it' @Zoe7 @CheerBear @Former-Member ( and i do love the pic) it is tiring pretending to be ok all the time. I can just breathe here even for a short while.
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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If 'just breathing' is all you can do tonight then that is enough @outlander (and quite essential lol) 
I am just going to get some dinner underway but will still be around ...might just take me a bit longer to get back to you but knowing others are around helps...
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Lol fortunately its a subconscious thing 😂 @Zoe7
Thats ok i do have my friends here including you to keep.me company (even when offline) 💕
I will have to log off soon too for a little bit as its getting noisy here. Still at mums house
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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I am glad you are still at your mum's house @outlander - although I know it can be triggering for you there and the noise can get to you it is better than being home alone when you are feeling like this - this way we know you have people around you and you are safe.
