outlanderSenior Contributor
rough time
is anyone around to talk to atm
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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i know @Snowie its more the awkwardness of it thats all and triggers. i know both you and Sans are fine with well awkward though lol!
ive run out of meds to but i cant afford it because of an added expense this week and again having trouble with people paying (eye rolls happening alot here latley). i dont really want to ask for borrow any as mum and pop are struggling abit as well so will just have to see if something i have up for sale sells. its only been a day..
ah yeah, best wait till tomorrow now for bloods. i havent had crumpets for ages!!!
ive run out of meds to but i cant afford it because of an added expense this week and again having trouble with people paying (eye rolls happening alot here latley). i dont really want to ask for borrow any as mum and pop are struggling abit as well so will just have to see if something i have up for sale sells. its only been a day..
ah yeah, best wait till tomorrow now for bloods. i havent had crumpets for ages!!!
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SnowieSenior Contributor
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Sorry hun, got stuck on the phone @outlander
Yes I am fine with awkward or whatever you need to say but can understand how hard it is to get things out too.
Meds are expensive and when we cannot get them b/c of the espense that is difficult. I always go to a cheaper chemist even though its not the closest and always get the cheaper generic brand too. Makes it a bit cheaper.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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no need to apologise @Snowie xox
im already getting cheapest ones i can but have to get them quite alot and one of them is 20$ on its own and need it each fortnight plus other meds on top. but i need them so will have to work out something.
it is really hard to get out.. mmm ok.. i have to go get another pap test done but the thing worrying me the most is the last test was 'abnormal' so needed to have one a yr later (and its now come to that time) however im stressing that if it comes back abnormal again im going to have to get oher tests done. the major problem though is im worried that if it is something more or i need further tests etc im going to have to say what happened and im not going to do that. its not like this has come up under normal circumstances where im in a relationship or been in one so cant put it down to that.
so ive been avoiding it like the plague. its causing so much stress!!
im already getting cheapest ones i can but have to get them quite alot and one of them is 20$ on its own and need it each fortnight plus other meds on top. but i need them so will have to work out something.
it is really hard to get out.. mmm ok.. i have to go get another pap test done but the thing worrying me the most is the last test was 'abnormal' so needed to have one a yr later (and its now come to that time) however im stressing that if it comes back abnormal again im going to have to get oher tests done. the major problem though is im worried that if it is something more or i need further tests etc im going to have to say what happened and im not going to do that. its not like this has come up under normal circumstances where im in a relationship or been in one so cant put it down to that.
so ive been avoiding it like the plague. its causing so much stress!!
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SnowieSenior Contributor
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It's a hard one @outlander. We need them but cost so much.
Pap tests are uncomfortable at the best of time and if u got an abnormal reading last time then it is understandable to feel apprehensive about this one. I would say there is no point worrying until you know the answers but I know it is something that would be ruminating around in you head.
Remember him you dont have to say anything you dont want to, you are in control of that.
Hugs my sweet sis 🤗🤗
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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it reaallllyyyy sucks! @Snowie
its not so much the test it is those results 😞 sometimes i dont want to know. last yr and this yr has already been bad enough. i know it has to be done at some point but i really dont want to go
its not so much the test it is those results 😞 sometimes i dont want to know. last yr and this yr has already been bad enough. i know it has to be done at some point but i really dont want to go
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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@Snowie how are you holding up today?
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SnowieSenior Contributor
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@outlander there is not so much we can do about the results except for crossing that hurdle when you get to them. Remember you dont have to go through it alone, we will be here helping you through it💜💜
I am holding up ok. Got to go pick kids up soon
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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That is true @Snowie and thank you sis 💜💜
Will catch up later on. Gotta get kids now too.
Will catch up later on. Gotta get kids now too.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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evening @Sans911 @Snowie
im watching bbt atm if you would both like to join me (can change seasons if you all want to watch the same ep etc)
how are you both?
im watching bbt atm if you would both like to join me (can change seasons if you all want to watch the same ep etc)
how are you both?
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SnowieSenior Contributor
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Evening @outlander
Just sat own again after doing the dishes.
How are you going tonight?
