outlanderSenior Contributor
rough time
is anyone around to talk to atm
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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I see you are chatting to Bella and Hamsolo1 so was leaving you be hun @outlander. Just dropping by with some likes
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@outlander
Well, on Monday when my male (very handesome & gentle) friend came to visit me here at home. We talked, & got along so amazingly wonderful, he has not been to visit me properly in about 8 years, He has helped me a couple of times, but not come in for a visit. Well he wanted to come & visit me, last Sunday he told me over the phone & chose Monday.
After spending time smiling, giggling & our conversation was just flowing. He had to go & asked could he visit on Friday again. He got up off the chair & Ruby got a little concerned & wanted to guard me. I told him look I know what to do to show Ruby that you are my friend so she will trust you. I asked him to stay where he was, & I walked over to him & bent down next to his face & stroked his hair & told Ruby that he was a nice man & that mummy likes him. While I was talking to Rugy doing that close to him, he was smelling the perfume on my neck & making little love sounds! I did not know whether to get all weak at the knees or to try & just over look it! I can't type anymore as I'm giggling like a romantic fool here!!!!!!
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Lol just dont fall off your chair! @Former-Member Very sweet of him.
8 yrs is a long time! Maybe his visits will become abit more frequent. Does he live nearby or just passing through?
8 yrs is a long time! Maybe his visits will become abit more frequent. Does he live nearby or just passing through?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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@Sans911 💜💗
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Hahahahahahahahah I'm crying I'm giggling so much here!!!!!!!!!!!111
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I am such a doork @outlander I am so rusted when it comes to romance!!!
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Lol @Former-Member im in the same boat. Me and romance arent the best mix!
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@outlander
xox
Edited: too personal
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@outlander
Yes, he lives close by but he is a hard worker, & is very busy most days. We were very close years ago, looks like we are becoming close again. 😉
Love & Hugs!
Bella XO 🙂
I suppose I should go to bed now that I spilled the beans! awwah!!
Yes, he lives close by but he is a hard worker, & is very busy most days. We were very close years ago, looks like we are becoming close again. 😉
Love & Hugs!
Bella XO 🙂
I suppose I should go to bed now that I spilled the beans! awwah!!
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Hi @outlander, @Former-Member, @MDT, @Sans911 and everyone. Good tos see you.
Good one @outlander, looks like you found your words √ I got distracted sorry. Any wonder you feel overwhelmed with all these things going on, and a fuzzy mind for problem solving with strong pain meds. First things first - rest for next 2days with soups, fruit and after ABs stop - do ya probiotics.
When I feel there's so much on like you describe, anxiety starts to creep in, and I risk dropping the whole bundle, so I have learned to take notes: You need two diaries
- a smaller diary for your handbag to record all future appoints, to do lists... You can use little sticky notes here too.
- An A4 diary to list everything you did at the end off the day.
- i also have another hard cover blank journal for venting and to brainstorm but lately just listing my day seems therapeutic enough.
Would your pop go in respite a couple weeks? Has he had an ACAT assessment? Are you familiar with MyAgedCare website? That seems to be the 'go to' place. https://www.myagedcare.gov.au/
Anyway,crest tonight. I'm so glad you're talking xox
Good one @outlander, looks like you found your words √ I got distracted sorry. Any wonder you feel overwhelmed with all these things going on, and a fuzzy mind for problem solving with strong pain meds. First things first - rest for next 2days with soups, fruit and after ABs stop - do ya probiotics.
When I feel there's so much on like you describe, anxiety starts to creep in, and I risk dropping the whole bundle, so I have learned to take notes: You need two diaries
- a smaller diary for your handbag to record all future appoints, to do lists... You can use little sticky notes here too.
- An A4 diary to list everything you did at the end off the day.
- i also have another hard cover blank journal for venting and to brainstorm but lately just listing my day seems therapeutic enough.
Would your pop go in respite a couple weeks? Has he had an ACAT assessment? Are you familiar with MyAgedCare website? That seems to be the 'go to' place. https://www.myagedcare.gov.au/
Anyway,crest tonight. I'm so glad you're talking xox
