outlanderSenior Contributor
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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lol @Zoe7 that is really very cute! he is spolit indeed. did you end up at bunnings?
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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Nope but I did vacuum and clean the kitchen so that is a bonus @outlander I will go to Bunnings on Wednesday in between DBT and my pdoc appointment
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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well at least you done something today @Zoe7 well done. abit of relaxing time between your sessions sounds like a good idea, though Toby wont be able to go with you will he?
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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No he won't but it will mean I don't have to come all the way home for an hour so I will save on petrol @outlander I need to get a couple of things from the supermarket as well so if I do that also then the time should go quite quickly. I do like coming home to check on my fur babies but it is half an hour each way so the driving (and petrol used) does add up - that makes me more tired when I eventually get home for the day.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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thats true. Petrol does add up @Zoe7
only a few weeks ago it was 1.59 it was dreadful.
i remember you saying youd like them to learn to be by themselves for longer periods of time too so these are good opportunities and allows you to get things done quicker as well
only a few weeks ago it was 1.59 it was dreadful.
i remember you saying youd like them to learn to be by themselves for longer periods of time too so these are good opportunities and allows you to get things done quicker as well
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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Yeah - Cat is okay but Toby needs to be at home for longer periods without me being around - so this will be a good test to see how he copes @outlander - tbh it is probably me who stresses most out of the two of us lol
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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lol @Zoe7 well with the extra time away im sure youll both get use to it but slowly.
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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I used to take him everywhere with me but now if I am going to the chemist or supermarket I leave him at home - I suppose that is progress @outlander
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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that is progress @Zoe7 slow and steady as itll be just as hard for you as it is for him.
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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There was a time when I couldn't be away from him at all - even going to appointments was hard to leave him for an hour or so - so I have made progress in that regard @outlander - he is definitely my security blanket but knowing I can leave him without getting too anxious now is real progress.
