rough time

Actually, skinny is not in fashion anymore. Its all the fuller figure, as in hour glass. BIG hips, HUGE Boobs, & big legs, & lips. I watch so much on TV as I can't walk around for a long time without serious pain. Even the internet is full of BIG girls are beautiful. So fashion changes all the time. Skinny looks under nourished, & sometimes very unwell. Even models are BIG now, have a look & see. Its just an image, an illusion. I am sure you are pretty, because your heart, is beautiful, & this will always show in the face. you are like me outlander, we have a poor self image of ourselves. Mine was enforced by my Father at a very young age. Then all the abuse n my life, helped to make me feel like trash. I am working on turning things around for my good, I have learnt that some people will try to make us feel bad about ourselves, because that helps them to feel like they are in control.
Controllers, are every where, & often are in our family. Gossip is second handed news, so gossipers are not positive, its always jealously, & twisted distorted, words that are never passed on to flatter, or build us up. Gossip, causes so much damage, when we finally find out about it. It has unfortunately done its damage. I have moved on from ppl because of gossip. My family (excluding mum)are serious gossips, & I have just moved on from them, even though for a while it hurt so bad. I had to let them go for my own well being. NO ONE is worth our life, & health being destroyed for.
One door closes, & another door opens! xo 🙂

@outlander Sorry I left this out <<<Edited

Yeah i guess so @Former-Member id still rather be a healthier weight.


Doesnt matter now anyway. I wont be there in rush hrs anymore

Hi @outlander 👋

I have come in late on your post from this morning. Good to hear you have a psych appointment tomorrow morning. I hope it all goes really well for you, and helps you answer some questions that maybe we can’t help you with here ..... look forward to hearing how you got on.

Yes @outlander