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Morning @outlander, seems like a rough night for you too. Hope today has some good in it
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MDTSenior Contributor
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hey @outlander take care today
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Is anyone around atm?
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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Hey lil Sis I'm here @outlander
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Afternoon sis. I just had my psych appt and now im worried about the weekend with the weather. Our area now has warnings for -thunder fever' and ill be out in it all weekend. Do you think we could just chat i need abit of a distraction? @Sans911
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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@outlander do you really have to go out in weather like that? Can things be put off?
Yep I can talk about anything you want hun. I'm laying in bed with two fluff balls near me. I would to love to go back to sleep but there's a noisy rubbish truck outside
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Umm... no its a horse show so i dont think i can get out of it as i volunterred to help abit throughout the day as well as help mum with sisters as they are riding. @Sans911 Im not sure what to talk about. Everything is just really hard and the session felt like an ultimatum which doesnt help me. Aww i like your fluffballs. Wish i could come and play with them. Ive had bad constant headaches the past 2 days and doesnt responded to otc pain relief but my house is always noisy so thats not helping
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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Surely if the weather is that bad they would cancel right?
Not sure why a pyschologist would give an ultimatum; seems a harsh thing to do to someone vulnerable and unwell.
Aww, I don't like noisy houses. Come to mine. It's extremely quite. I have a spare room for you. And the cats will like you I'm sure. Try some lavender on your temples and wrists, and maybe a sweet, strong tea.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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No the weathers good except for the pollen count @Sans911 it only gets cancelled in gail force winds rain etc. They wont cancel because of the air quality lol.
Hmm well she said until i want to do trauma work and accept it then its no use going to therapy. So basically either do trauma work or don't bother seeing her. She also said its my issue that i have mh issues because i have a low tolerance for negative thoughts and emotions. and also that im obviously am not doing enough because after 6 sessions im not doing any better. ( she done an assessment again and she sends it off to my gp) Then she said with trauma work itll be hard for a while. So im.confused its going to be hard for a while but i cant struggle?
Well here i have pop yelling cause he wont use his hearing aids. Mum yelling cause he cant hear kids tv shows on and kids are being noisy and yelling over the top of everyone because they are excited for the show. Oh yes thank you il come stay at your house for a while.
I just had a tea but havent tried the lavender. Im taking strong otc every 4 hrs and its not improving at all for the past 2 days. Would i still be ok to use oils with allergies- does that sound stupid?
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